Liking this journal Shah - good to see you getting out there on a regular basis.

Have patience, and the breakthroughs will come!

Thanks SmileyK, I'm not getting out anywhere near enough though!!

And I've been neglecting the day time too.

17/100

Saturday 16th June 2012

I passed out around 7pm and didn't make it out!! Haha it was the busiest day of the week.

Hope this summer picks up soon. Still wavering on whether a bootcamp is worth the money too. I hear it takes a 'year off' which financially would make it worth it (consider £20/£10 for your average night out) but still not entirely sure.

Okay next week recap:

Day time: Hi's and go for a compliment or some form of conversation opener

Night time: Monday - 5 girls
Tuesday- Turn up
Wednesday - 5 girls
Thursday - Turn up
Friday - 'proper' night out
Saturday - Proper night out (possibly with friends)

Mon-Thurs are relatively quiet nights, especially Tuesday and Thursday so small goals for them whilst Friday and Saturday mean having a normal night out with speaking to girls (or should I say new people) through-out.

On a side note:

- I'll tidy up my journal, organise it etc
- Power naps to overcome this falling asleep-ness
- Get on my career and education goals for the summer
- Writing up a few openers, little lines and stories to use in conversation (which generally come about from what I say in set)

18-19-20/100

Sunday,Monday, Tuesday

The passed 3 days I've sparked up a quick conversation during the day inside shops or w/e, generally situational/spontaneous openers. Although Daygame around here is a lot harder as not so many people around as busy Manchester! Already miss the place.

Only went out Monday night and I turned up which is good.

Tuesday I didn't turn up as I passed out at 9pm, damn, I wake up early and fall asleep early aha.

Might write up a vision of my goals of what I exactly want by the end of the summer.

Getting used to being back in Newquay and until the summer builds up I consider the weekdays a build up to the busier Weekend.

Getting back into journalling. Stopped for a while whilst getting back into just going out in newquay.

getting used to the different types of nights out it is etc.

And this week I got into it reasonably well. My only goal being to turn up from now on.

I've been talking about it (just speaking to girls in the club rather than poo-ah) witha few friends and making up a lame game to get us to actually do it.

Too small a place to go out alone (where I know I'd probably do quite well!), town is busy now too.

Like you could go out 6 days a week with reasonable amount of people out each night.

From now on I'll post up field reports.

Also note to self: stay away from expensive nightlife 'habits', it costs you so much for a fucked up nose for the next 3 days!!

Actually thats weird, in newquay I'm genuinely not sure if i know anybody who doesn't do coke and weed. Maybe its the age-range who knows.

- Stay out till end of the night
- get friends to get involved with chatting up girls too
- get friends to help force you into it, like stupid newbie games etc
- keep turning up
- cut down, if not none on alcohol and drugs

Shah, do you live in Newquay? I'm thinking of heading down there this weekend or next

Got any pointers? or fancy a sarge?

havent had the internet for ages!!

Dale, I would say its not worth going if you havent gone yet. Only mid-summer is it worth going to :)

Anyway, I wanna get back into sarging/gaming/going out with the intent of meeting girls/people.

In the summer i enjoyed being with all my friends I hadnt seen in about a year and had lots of nights out, lots of gym sessions and worked loads too.

Who's out at night? When/Where etc etc :)


I at Tiger Tiger tonight

22/10/12

Went out Friday and Saturday with Zac with turning up and getting out as the only goal in mind.

I did, was good to catch up with Zac and get back into it.

During the summer I mainly got drunk or hung out in big groups at house parties etc so it was a change to be back 'gaming'. Old habits grew back in etc

Anyway;

Go out Tuesday-Saturday nights/days
Going to spend a few days out in the day time to get into that again
Main thing to work on is starting conversations and carrying them, being sociable.

Pretty much back at square one in terms of outer game haha

Right I've decided to get back into this, the summer and being back at home put me off track.

Anyway, Ive tried a few nights out alone but they're too hard and I do go out with friends etc but for me I get way too comfortable to really approach.

Anybody go out in Manchester regularly? Said to hear Sapmi has moved away!

Ill get back on doing stuff in the day. I swear University makes you lazy as shit and sleep loads, I had loads of plans for this semester haha!

Anyway Ill start properly tomorrow! Day and night.

I've gone out alone in Manchester for the passed 3 nights literally just to turn up, could have stayed in my home town and gone out with friends but i know I would have literally done nothing - and i can't afford to drink right now anyway - low on money!

Pretty nerve racking, nothing great happened thats worth recording from the nights.

On Saturday day I met up with Ash (Nova) from the forum, was cool we did a few day time approaches, nice to know and meet a normal person (good thing about this forum) and we made plans to meet again and push ourselves a little more each time we meet.

Finally built the momentum and mindset back up to get into this again! It really is the hardest thing I'll ever do. I believe, and i know it sounds a bit melodramatic, that if i can sort this area of my life out, I can do anything in life as its genuinely the one thing in life I thought was impossible.