Yah, try stuff like funfairs or pier's, or crazy golf…all of which I've found work great and are relatively cheap too. The quicker you can make a dick of yourself and not be trying to escalate an interview, the more likely you are both to be swept up in it and things will move quicker anyway.

Anywhere with games and a focus on stuff that's not just the two of you. Lot's of opportunities to laugh about the surroundings/people, challenge her to a game, mock her skills a bit, act wounded if you lose…just generally loads of opportunities to be playful and let your personality out.

Tru dat :hihi: ...you did say that shit tho! Easy to misread the tone of text tho so maybe I did.

I mean on the one hand I agree, societal/cultural/religious factors clearly influence behaviour especially in groups, but my point is that it will have felt disingenuous to the girls. You didn't fancy either of them, you knew it, they knew it, you wanted something from them (to progress your skills), they felt it and threw up the shields because it was yet another guy wanting something. I'm not trying to be a dick I'm just saying there are other ways to look at shit that might serve you more, even if there are environmental factors.

Not so much ego and state, ego is a term that has mainly just sent me chasing my tail over the years and state comes n goes. More self esteem and healthy boundary function I think.

I only approach out of socialness, having fun, or pulling. Never anything to do with skillset, pua-ness or anything.

They didn't sense anything, they were just a bunch of bitches in that environment. I went out the Manchester just this Tuesday again and I met girls from the SAME town (of where the girls are bitchy) and they were friendly and normal.

In this town, or at least the clubs I've been to, girls are bitches.

Ah well, fair enough.

Im going to try to post up on here again. I have three main goals:

1) To be more ballsy when I'm out with approaching in a self-motivated way. My general 'plan' for a night out is this:

- Approach a lot
- Socialise
- Isolate, escalate, close, #close (if its early on or they're getting dragged away)
- Stay and keep going until the end of the night, stay with girls rather than walking off.

2) To chat up and close girls during my day. I don't even mean street game, literally going about my day be able to do it

3) Meet girls in my social circle. I guess its about that whole 'deep identity level change' shit RSD go on about and staying out all night doing it too. A shift in being, to make it sound far more deep than it actually is.

Still field reports are hard to write up these days as I don't feel them in my heart like I used to or see many 'new' observations or whatever anymore but I am trying to be a bit more open minded and newbie mindset'd.

Im back in Newquay and there seem to be far more hot girls than last year! Should be quite the feast for me.

My Manchester brothers (and sisters, Dice) should come down for a weekend during the summer. Get a gay pile-on going.

Went out last night with my regulars but in a different dynamic. It was three guys and one girl, and the girl fucked off quite early to get stoned. I knew it was going to be a great night because the one guy is one of my best mates, who I have all these crazy nights out with. We're pre-drinking and the vibes and mood is going great; no drama; no people you have to put up with and it wasn't a big group full of everyone wanting to do different things and it ends up feeling like your managing a diplomatic company.

First we pop into a restaurant that's closed but we knew someone who worked in there who's having some after hours thing. Its full of all the druggy stoner skater kids I knew growing up. I resist the temptation to try and get any MDMA or K, especially after finding out they had none. Chatting shit with everyone until my mates decide to leave so we can actually get into town.

By now we are completely fucked. I try and get us passed the queue at the club and get denied in front everyone which made me look a right cunt, we laugh, in the queue I chat to some girl. 5 minutes later we're in and the girl's friend is getting her to go to the toilet straight away. Make out with her with "No, come here, one sec-one second" pulling her in. She says she'll come find me. On to the bar for a load of drinks which I don't need. Chatting to some girl at the bar and start making out with her, get my drinks and go off. 10 or so minutes later I see her again, and she asks where Im from

"I live across the road". I don't.
"Really?"
"yeah let's go"

Blah blah blah about her friends but we leave, I keep saying I live at the end of wherever we're looking at but end up half fucking her in an alley but take her back to mine and bang her. Back in town by 2am. The lay itself was really really weird and funny but no one wants to hear about a chick on her period and screaming about her boyfriend waiting outside.

Meet my mates again, chat to a few more girls but I think I didn't wanna ditch my friends anymore, instead spending the night having a laugh with them. Then went back to do ketamine at 3am which was fucking mad, I thought Ricky Gervais and Karl Pilkington were arguing with me but 'thought I wasn't tripping' when Steven Merchant started sticking up for me.

I know I could have pulled again that night as I saw the first girl again but ya know I really do enjoy all the antics that I get upto. I also took a girl home the last night I was out too but that really isn't a field report to write about. Although they both have two things in common: at some point quite early I put 'going back to mine' out there and acted on it, and the girls were not with their friends at the moment I met them.

Next time I'm out I am definitely staying out later to pull. Drugs man, they're bad for you. Oh yeah, and with this girl I straight away said "We'll be back in town in ten minutes. Your friends won't even notice". I've realised a lot of girls don't want to spend the night with you after you've fucked. Every girl I've spoken to it about always talks about wanting the guy to fuck off straight after a one night stand which is perfect for me.

Sounds like a great night. If ONS girls is what you like (I did) then go for it. Agree with you about the drugs, it was my big weakness and it's unecessarry tbh.

It's fine me looking back and wishing I hadn't got wasted so much instead of pulling but I suppose at the time I just enjoyed being wasted. But I'm regretting now not putting more effort into pulling.

Last night I went out and got really drunk then spoke to girls. I was not great with the friends of the girls and/or fighting against the dynamic rather than going with it. Going with the flow I have always found better as it means a bit later on you can get them away from their friends. Silly drunk me. A gay man asked 'would you fuck my bum?'. My friend was so drunk he passed out the main strip and crack heads comforted him. A Czech girl had a bf but told me to come into Subway where she works for discount shit. I learnt that Czechs don't like it being called Czech - Slovakia.

Nearly got with my mates milf of a mother but I was locked in indecision as that's a friendship breaker if there ever was one. As she got dragged away she said something like 'if I wasn't thing's mother would you get with me' I said something really crude and sleazy probably. The bad thing is I wasn't feeling bad about doing it to my friend, just him finding out about it!!!

Oh and I got two girls numbers; one was a promo girl who I've been texting today and the other was some 18 year old - yeah I know numbers are gay.


Think that's my focus; approach consistently through out the night especially at the end; social; going with the flow/friends; isolating and closing

Got a lot to post about when I get to my computers (it's ages away, almost 2 meters from my bed where I am) but I've found dates to be really good recently and im aiming for then. Nailed my first girl off tinder as well. Fucked 5 girls in 6 or 7 weeks whilst only being able to go out once a week! Had a close call for a fuck but LITERALLY the most fucked up coincident that could only happened to me occurred. Will write it all up soon. I also feel like I'm at a turning point in all this but maybe not and it's my imagination as I always think I'm having revelations.


Peace and love!

this made my day !