As a guy, I would very rarely let my personal shit get in the way of me seeing a bird I like, unless I was genuinely busy or not in the mood. But I would find some other time.

Could this be one of the biggest differences between men and women?

Yeah, I have sometimes deleted bird's numbers in case I have a moment of weakness, fold and text/call her. It's also like getting rid of ashtrays from your house when you quit smoking.

It's funny, if I'm not into a bird that much I wouldn't be all over her. I'd be making out with her and stuff less than I would with a bird I am very attracted to... so it would be obvious. But birds can be all over you one minute and then just totally switch.

This is where a lot of guys go wrong I think. They are fooled that it means more to the bird than it actually does.

If they are going to have a night or a few nights of passion with you then they tend to want it to be full on. I guess we just have to enjoy it for what it is but totally detatch ourselves from the outcome.

The only goal is hole. You shagged her, you won.