I don't feel insecure about her going out with her mates at all and I am not needy. I've been totally cool about the whole thing... the point was she got upset when I stayed out with my mates.

To be honest, I thought that was a little over the top from her, as we had only been seeing each other a few days, but then again I suppose it was a little inconsiderate of me.

After that, it kind of went through my head for a moment that she might also have been annoyed that I told a white lie about the tattoo. As soon as she told me she wasn't I replied, "Oh cool, that was just in case. Have a nice time."

And there's one more thing that remains to be said, it's that I'm bad bad and I'm wicked in bed!

That's a good point about the hotter the girl the bigger the issue... not just hot though, also the one's who are headstrong and independant. These are the type of girls I go for.

Sent her a message this morning, "Hey, r u gonna b free anytime soon?wub b nice2do something.X"

I got a reply quite a few hours later, "I'm going to hammam right now (turkish bath)... I'm distracted in this period, nothing personal, but.. maybe in some time, sorry!"

I replied, "Hey no problem at all, I totally understand. Let me know when you are more settled.X"

I guess I just have to forget about it for now then. I'm moving into a new apartment in a couple of weeks and will throw a party, maybe if I haven't heard from her by then, I'll invite her... maybe... unless the gap has been filled.

You know what, id take a leaf out of Jaz`s, legends and Phils book and delete her number, have a serious I AM THE FUCKING DADDY moment
otherwise you are just gonna keep chasing her looking like a choad

I'll probably do something like that. I don't tend to chase women.

It never ceases to suprise me how delicate they are. One minute they are acting like you've been going out for months and the next you've lost them over the slightest thing.

It's like treading on fucking egg shells.

yeah i agree with you, dating chicks from online is even worse as they have a list of guys thats ever growing that want to meet them, so you are constantly on trial.

What is the moral of this story then? Because it turns out that I wasn't being paranoid, in fact I was just being highly perceptive and she really was being hot and cold, for reasons that may well be out of my control... Should we just always assume the best no matter what? Is that not deluded?

a lesson i learned was that chicks have their own lives and their own shit going on you may never ever get to know about--so when they fuck you about randomly and you go home racking your brain as to WHY she isnt interested and WHAT you did wrong--- chances are its nothing to do with you or very little to do with you.
I think the skill is in realising when it IS to do with how you act and wether its somthing you should change about yourself if you can.
or you can just say FUCK YOU and move on

I was chatting to a foreign girl yesterday and i like to think foreign girls are my specialty well convo goes like this:

Me: cool, well we should hook up for a coffee
Her: yeah id like that would like to get to know you first though
Me: yeah thats fine we should chat on the phone, is your spoken english good?
Her: well its my second language ive been here 5 years but my mobile single is bad at my house
Me: Oh well you could gimme your landline number if your signals bad
Her: no i cant give you my landline
long pause
Her: Your really weird i dont want to speak to you again

Me:...wtf random!

I haven't been with a girl from my own country in three years! I've been mostly with foreign chicks for 11 years now. I'm hooked... anything different I guess. Ironically, It's been so long that an English or Irish bird would seem exotic to me now.

DELETE DELETE DELETE!

altho, theres a girl who i have come down alot, alot of the time she is genuinely busy.. it soemtimes make me think she isnt interested so i just think

fuck it, then we end up talkin an she will wind up cumin round. u need to realise that ur not that fuckin important that someone is willing to drop their life 4 u like tha, an if they are... u probly wouldnt be interested.

last year i would have been screwin, now i just dont care... if i dont see her again, my like if goin in the direction it was & is going to go in...

ur not gonna change it, just GO WITH THE FLOWWWWWW