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Originally Posted by Midas touch
I sent her a text to say, "I've just got back from scuba diving, and now I'm going running." So, as far as she knows, I'm totally chill about the whole thing...
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A few points.
People tend to act according to expectations and treatment from others - if your treat someone as being trustworthy are are much more likely to actually be trustworthy.
You obviously have some self esteem issues if you feel insecure about your GF going out with her mates. If she wanted to be with another guy they she would be (is that too obvious ?).
No girl will cheat on you provided you sort out two things:
1) make sure the sex is fantastic.
2) be secure and non-needy/jealous.
Girls by and large don't cheat because they meet someone more attractive (like guys generally do), they do it because havn't sorted one of the above.
Insecurity and jealousy is probably the biggest thing that will put a girl off a guy, the hotter the girl the bigger the issue will be for her.
Your destiny is in your own hands. MTFU (tm) Phil