Hi Guys,

These are my first ever field reports. Easter weekend is brilliant, because there are 4 whole nights of no excuse sarging (except for those lucky few who have day 2 f-closes!)

So here goes:

Maundy Thursday Night 2009:

Me and Anthony were out. I opened a two set at the bar in Blu - used "does it ever get busy in here". Was in set for like 30 mins chatting. Kino with my target was a little awkward. I clawed, palm read, cold read etc. She touched my necklace, initiated conversation, so there were a few iois, but I did not close. Said our gooodbyes and went.

I spoke to quite a few women, must have opened at least 10 if not more. None of my openers were canned. I opened one set, stayed there for 15 mins, talking about this underground rave in Picadilly - but alas, no closing.

positives:
opening more sets,
more kino, kissing girls on cheek

negatives:
not closing - number, K or anything else
did not bring my note pad to take notes for field report

This was night one. Hopefully warmup night, and hope to get further tommorow. Wish me luck - Something MUST be on this weekend. No whores!

Hi man,

I think you did some good stuff last night. Definite improvement.

I think we both need to work on set logistics - getting smoother at introducing the wing, and the best time to introduce the wing.

I've spoken to a few of the guys about the best way to interact with the wing. One way seems to be to suddenly cut-off from the conversation with the set, speak to the wing, introduce the wing - the wing can then block the booners and act cool.

Quite a few times last night set logistics weren't the best (eg, girl stood in busy coridoor; girl sat with back to everyone... ) - it was always my opinion to open anyway, just for the practice of opening (rather than not opening).

I think there is an art to set logistics – more, yet more to learn!!!

Thanks Anthony,

It's still on for me this weekend, I can feel it - the weekend is still young!
One problem from last night is that my conversation was too linear. My excuse is that on nights that I have worked during the day, I'm still in logical work mode.

Next time I will say things like "lets play a game", or "u can be my playmate for the night" or "whats your favourite animal"....I'll get some fun randomness going more while always thinking "I'm gonna have sex with you"

In fact that is all I should be thinking in set "I'm gonna shag you" not "what do I say next"

Hi Guys,

Yes the next installment!!

Good Friday Evening 2009! (or should that be bad friday? )

Ever get one of those nights when everything you touch turns to shit?
Well I had a hengenious idea last night. I thought if I consumed vast amounts of gin before I go out, I would not only have a cheap night, but a good night.

Well, I certainly had a very cheap night. I did open and winged some sets.However, I was not able to keep interactions going, had women pushing away my kino advances and in all, left the night with nothing. I think alcohol had a lot to do with it.

Yes, I agree you need to be in state - but you can hype yourself up without taking copious amounts of alcohol. The alcohol perpetuated by paranoid states from the rejections I was having, a downward spiral.

So, guys, there were no notable interactions to talk about - I opened alot, but crashed and burned alot too.

For tonight, I will have a little alcohol, but just enough that I don't consider myself "intoxicated" - and I need to take my pad and paper!

over and out

I had a good night, last night guys. Started off by just dropping in a set which Sapmi, Darood and Swype where in. Stayed and chatted for a while. The when Adam showed up I barrelled into a two seated set which adam winged me on. First time I opened a seated set and it was going fine and stayed in a bit except I made the mistake of kneeling rather than grabbing a chair which jynx pointed out when he went past (cheers mate) grabbed the nearest thing I could which was a table and carried on chatting untill I got busted on by one of the people that worked there as they said it woudld not take my weight. Left set. Winged Swype at one point which was cool as even though there was dance music playing I got the obstical to salsa with me( very cool and the first time ive done that).

For me a great learning night, the only downside was there were no busses running as it was good Friday. Started walking home, made it as far as the embassy club in harperhey (about three miles) then called a taxi.

Should be fun tonight.

Retro

Well for me the Saturday was nowhere near as productive as the Friday. I opened two girls and bombed both times and just didn't feel it all night. I certinly know some of the contributing factors, one being it took the night ages to get going and my usual rutine on the train of getting into state had subsided by the time I got out there. The second and main bit is the AFC bit of me is thinking about a girl who I have never had a connection like this before, to put it simply it's like the female version of me plus she's very cute, so finding someone like this is not only unique, exciting but also very scary as I really don't want to mess it up. Yes it's east to say easy come easy go but to find a female me it's nearly impossible due to my interests and a very sexy one just shoved me right over the edge. Arh well, hopefully I'll have my shot together come next weekend.

Retro

Hi Guys,

Ready for the next installment?

Easter Saturday 2009:
Well out with Jinx, Swype, Kowalski, Promethius, Retro, Rood, legend, Kowalski's sister and met Spooner from the Lair.

We wanted to get into Trof, so Jinx opened this blonde HB8.5 (in my opinion guys) so that he could pair up with us to get into Trof. I kept looking at her, she kept looking at me - she said to me "I know you from somewhere". It was the girl I nearly kiss closed from Valentines day!

I got chatting to her briefly again, then said I had to get back to my friends. I just handed her my phone - she typed the number in. Bingo, number close!Thanks Jinx. I see this as like a trophy - thing is, I'm not sure whether the interaction was strong enough to begin with for her to reply. However - this is the second time she opened me. She was the one who opened me on Valentines day! Now before you say, I fancy her only because she opened me - I get opened by Ugs alot - so to be opened by someone I actually fancy is pretty cool.

Anyway the number close woo'ed me a little. I opened quite a few sets. Got blown out a little, or I ejected, because I didn;t fancy them. I opened one set outside Walrus. Well, I was walking outside of Walrus. I saw a girl stand there having a fag....LAZER EYES!!!.. I thought she was HB9.5, my jaw dropped. So I just walked over to her and started talking (wouldn;t have been able to do that 6 weeks ago!). Her friends came, and I got chatting to the whole set outside for like half an hour. They went in Walrus, I followed in to find the rest of the gang. I didn't number close then, because I thought I would see her again there. I did see her again, but they were ejecting from the club....damn missed opp! On hindsight, should have number closed earlier on.

Last but not least we went into this Lounge night club hip hop thing. It was OK, danced with a few girls, did not kiss close. Approached a few girls there. One girl I attempted to number close - she said "boyfriend", I didn't bother.

Positives:
Loads of cheek kissing, kino, clawing etc Plus a number close

Negative:
No K close, no F close on the night.


I think everyone should have the opportunity to go out with the experts like Kowalski, Swype, Jinx etc at least once a week. Having more advanced PUAs in your social circle is a god send.

However, that said, I will start to Solo game next week. (basically open one set and go home lol) - This will develop my skill set to new levels. Guys, if you could be there in spirit for me (i.e on the other end of the phone) I would appreciate the help - I just want to get as good as you.

Over and out - final installment tommorow - OMG please no whores on Monday! It must happen Sunday night for me, please!!!

Hahahahahaha....!!

Yeah man, top night! You are right about hanging around with K, Swype & Jynxy...! Although I wont do a Jynxy and run in front a moving bus just to catch a cab...and then gettin involved in a slanging, spitting match with the cabbie, classic!!

I agree with you about that HB8.5, shes deffo hot my mate! You done well my boy!

I think last night was one of the best nights for me on the basis that my confidence was/is growing and I opened a few sets, number close and at the same time i was having a fab fab time...! I come to a realisation that being with a group of confident people helps with my own confidence too...!!

Gisa shout mate if you out again tonight...have to make sure you dont end up with a whore LOL..!!!

Final installment?
No lay report I'm afraid. ...

Broke my solo game viginity...opened one set solo - lasted 10 seconds! Result!

The guys came later, Anthony, his natural friend and Legend. Opened around 10-15 sets in total. Fairly quiet night for clubbing.

Opened a set in blu. Spoke to a pretty attractive girl for 20 mins..kinoed (well arm round her shoulder, periodically) I had cold hands, so I warmed them up, amd carried on. I could not progress further, escalate for the life of me. It's just wasn't happening..

I was opening sets left right and centre...even using kino, kissing cheeks etc. No closes, no real attraction hooks...

Anthony's non-pua friend was getting loads of attention. As I opened more and more, my confidence went down!...............Man, I may need some routines..is this natural stuff working? Or maybe I am not working...If so, how the fuck do I sort it out?

We went to tiger tiger...I was pretty low, frustrated etc...I was scribbling on my pad..when all of a sudden I was being opened, by three different sets, while I was scribbling...(how did that work?) I kino escalated one, but there was a friend involved....I am still too anxious to go for the Kiss...I know I would have been blown out or would I? I was also opened by this Mad Scottish guy who kept saying I was amazing?? He May have been a guardian angel. I needed that boost... That's good for solo game..befriending other guys is cool

I had very mixed feelings about this night...No closes, no luck... I am struggling.. If only I knew what in, and I was able to correct it, it would be glory. I have no trouble opening..staying in sets..etc...but no closes.

Anyway...solo gaming Wednesday night...any pointers for Wednesday would be appreciated. I think the hurdle of opening sets whileout Solo would be a huge thing.

Lastly I'm thinking "why bother?"...This shit is really difficult, why not just use hoes?..... Well this is a major masculine skill, all guys should know.. PUA skills affect all areas of life......I have to persist..

Some of you guys may think I'm taking this too seriously....however, I have NEVER been a natural with women....this has affected my life pretty negatively...being hen pecked etc....So I need these skills big time...

If I succeed, there is hope for all you new guys out there...watch this space!!

Over and out

On a lighter note...Hoe city tommorow boys!!

As a quick addition , the post i wrote about 'game mentality' was directed at people like Sapmi here , i love you but you talk yourself into these corners with all this 'jargon'

If you spoke to yourself like a confident man and not as a 'pick up artist' i think you would feel better about everything buddy .

Oh and Mark ... It's gonna happen bro , we all started somewhere ! It Will Happen .

I chatted to Prometheus alot on his first night out and he reminded me alot of me before i was 'handed the keys' . Really shy , anti social and abit of a recluse and i was exactly the same . Just like i assured him and like any of us can assure you , you'll get there and when you do you'll look back and think , why was i so worried ?

Good Lookin Out Guys , Loving the Support