Is the Manchester Saturday Sarge every week? Thought it had died out ages ago.

Yeah man, still going strong, and with summer coming it's gonna be rockin

Hit up town with Em9327 on Sat. Really cool guy, we spent a fair few hours chatting as we wandered the streets. We had that much fun, we also did the same Sunday. Something I have now realised is how cool the social side to all this day gaming is, getting to know different people you hang out with, as you stroll around the city centre (not to mention the exercise). Had the same in London a couple of weeks ago, and have kept in touch with these fellas since.

Anyway, big thing I decided to work on was kino/touching girls when talking to them, and touching them asap. This was great, as I'm not naturally like this with people. The more I do this, the more it will become normal, and I won't go into my head thinking about what move to make when.

Bumped into a girl I'd gone on a date with a couple of weeks ago. I'd been a bit slow with the physical on our date, so stepped it up a gear as we went for a quick coffee, and held her hands, stroked them, and stroked her hair. no makeout, but I'm still feeling a little awkward about making those moves... doh! Next time i intend to get her around mine for food

So, been back with my girlfriend the past couple of months, which has now ended again with us breaking up yet again last week. We have totally different vales, she wants me to put her first, before everything, something I cannot do. I also find her attitude and temper stressful to deal with. I could do without the constant agro. I now need to stay strong and not be tempted back to her, despite being hot as fuck… tough.

So, what better remedy than hitting up a girl I’d been working on a couple of months ago. I’d met her in the fruit n veg aisle at M&S, and been on a couple of dates with her before, the second of which led to mine where I’d fingered her, but she freaked out and resisted any more (traditional Chinese gal).

Anyway, this week she was up for hooking up for a jog and some post keep fit food. We went on our run, then got her straight back to mine for a shower. I did the same, then still in my towel, joined her on the sofa as she sat there in her underwear and a skimpy tshirt. She got very excited, I fucked her, then we watched the World Cup final, then fucked some more. Nice evening.

The last couple of months I’ve been in and out of a relationship again, so approached girls here and there on impulse when at shops, but not much to write home about except a couple of lays.

Last Sat I thought I needed to hammer it, so decided I’d head out with the sole intention of talking to girls, and to hang out with like-minded sargers (something I’d not done for about 4 months). I hooked up with some of the old regulars at the Manchester Saturday Sarge meet up, and also met some new guys. I ended up hanging out with an Australian dude for a few hours. He was cool, and pretty damn relentless at approaching and had a good solid natural confidence with the girls.

After a few false starts I tried to stop one Taiwanese chick. She didn’t stop, so I tried again and walked after her, again she wouldn’t stop, but I persisted and said ‘come on, just stop for a minute, what’s your name, I’m Ash’. This opened up my mind for the day, in that I wouldn’t just let them walk off. I would persist.

That day I had 4 or 5 similar approaches, one’s where I would have usually given up, but by persisting, I ended up giving myelf a chance. The best one was a hot girl from Brunei. She ended up texting me later apologising that she was just in a rush. She was prob just a little shy too, who knows why these girls won’t stop.

I also realised the fucking top buzz you get from talking to lots of girls. It’s like a drug. Little hits each time you do it. I spent 5 hours on the streets in the end, and my day ended approaching a Chinese girl in Aldi. The energy was awesome, she was all over me as I just felt awesome. There's a lot to be said for momentum here. An enjoyable day.

Big time. I find that once I've stopped & talked to over 5 girls I'm in the zone & AA has completely vapourized.

Sometimes it's a struggle to do the 5 lol but once done the feels are awesome.

Can I ask what you do to get in the zone? I sometimes struggle with this in day game.

Do you direct approach 5 girls? Or is it just little conversations like small talk?

It's 5 full on, stopping her in her tracks, grabbing her full attention approaches & with a direct compliment.

For me, when I've done this 5 times is when I feel I'm in the zone - The zone being where I can literally approach any girl in almost any situation. The 5 direct approaches are my way of getting in this state.

I'm all or nothing & it doesn't suit me to warm up with small talk when I could just jump in at the deep end & go for it.

AA is the pick up terminology that stands for Approach Anxiety.

Self explanatory really.

Yesterday on the way home from work i was feeling knackered and not up for talking to any girls. I then see a girl catch my eye walking into TKMax. I walked about in there wondering if I should approach or not, and just did it.

It was a nice chilled conversation, she was quiet, and I was tired. We chatted about fashion for a bit, and Hong Kong. Something I've now noticed is my opener is completely incidental, and is not intended to have an impact. It's purely me expressing myself and moving onto getting to know the girl. I'm also just saying stuff that feels relevant to my mood, and the situation. I'm not forcing any agendas, nor am I implimenting some conversational structure. As a result there is virtually no awkwardness. It flows.

Anyway, with this girl it ended with her saying 'I need to go meet my friend, maybe I'll see you...' and she waits. An open invitation to take her details.

Now I can just feel myself allowing it all to happen, rather than forcing it.