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Default 16-04-2013, 12:09 PM

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I agree 100% that I was overthinking this, no denying it.
I tend to over analyze stuff, so I need to work on not so much becoming attached, but more on just 'letting it play out' and not focus on the analysing of interaction/s. I need to make talking to people and getting peoples numbers and making friends completely natural and basic instinct, 2nd nature.
Perhaps you will have to analyse things to a degree to begin to see what is good and bad first. This will put you in your head, and make things pretty unnatural, but you'd rather this than bury your head in the sand, surely. Initially it will fuck up a lot of your interactions as you are thinking about stuff. From here you can work out what is natural, and what suits you.


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Default 16-04-2013, 12:16 PM

My suggestion would be not to analyse.

Maybe in your field reports you can.

As people, and being in pick-up, we tend to analyse enough as it is, no need to go doing it even more. Bad for your soul.


Know Thyself.

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Default 16-04-2013, 12:43 PM

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My suggestion would be not to analyse.
Why would you suggest it is bad to analyse things?


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Default 16-04-2013, 02:18 PM

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The pattern of all improvement anywhere by anything ever:

1. Performance
2. Feedback
3. Revision
4. Go to 1

Performance is impaired if you are revising performance during performance.


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Performance may also be impaired if you are implementing new ways of performing, that is, unless you have practiced pre-performance.


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Default 16-04-2013, 02:35 PM

Probably nowhere near as effective as practicing with real people face to face though.


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Default 16-04-2013, 03:04 PM

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You actually can't practice with real people though.

You can't practice killing a sheep with a real sheep. You are actually killing the sheep. Therefore, it is not practice it is performance.


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Which is why it is probably nowhere near as effective performing in front of the mirror at home.


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Default 16-04-2013, 04:21 PM

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You can't read.

It is impossible to perform, in a non-live situation. In front of only a mirror or camera, you can only practice you can not perform.


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You really do argue about the most pointless things don't you. Stop boring everyone by picking up on words I or you said.

So back to my original point... Performance can be impaired if you go into your head and are aware of shit you should be doing as a result of analysis. Who cares if you think you are practicing or performing. Life is one big learning experience.


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Default 16-04-2013, 05:28 PM

Everybody knows being Mr.Analytical is not attractive or a productive thing to do.


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Default 16-04-2013, 05:35 PM

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Ha ha ha, you are insane. The people who are chatting at the weekends about you and PMing me and texting me about what a crazy fuck you've become need to start saying it to your face.
Haha, brilliant. Coming to K to be told by him: 'It's ok, you don't need to do game, it's weird'.

All I see on here is you constantly trying to reinforce this illusion by trying to make me sound weird.


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Default 16-04-2013, 05:39 PM

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Everybody knows being Mr.Analytical is not attractive or a productive thing to do.
What the hell are you talking about? Why would it be unproductive to analyse a given situation. Not sure where you think attraction fits into this dynamic.


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