I thought about writing something about kissing on my last field report but I thought it would get lost within it.


Feel free to add your thoughts or girls weird kissing techniques.


Of the girls I kissed on Saturday the first one was really full on tongue straight down my throat. The other cute curly blonde had a weird habit of sucking my bottom lip which wasn't too bad, but all the time it gets a little weird so I said something about it she stopped doing it as much.
One other girl once pushed so hard against me while kissing I pulled the muscles in my neck and another kissed like a washing machine and stuck her tongue in and just swung it round and round in my mouth.


I tend to kiss quite gently at first a few pecks no tongues then passionately build it up and go with the moment. I sometimes touch/hold there head too as I know a lot of women like this.
I also gently run my fingers up and down their neck, this is where a lot of nerves are so it's very sensitive and depending on how passionate it's getting i kiss them on the neck too.


I can be quite playful with kissing too.
I go in for a kiss and as they are about to kiss I pull back then they follow and I keep going back until they smile or look confused then I smile back and kiss them properly but then sometimes they pull back then you just grab them and kiss them really passionately.

I was like this before I found out about any push pull stuff, it works really well it shows you are fun and also they desperately want to kiss you more.
Depending on how fun/crazy the girl is sometimes I do weird things like go in for the kiss and move up and kiss her nose instead or even a little bite.


Not to be big headed or anything but I think kissing is one of the things I'm best at PU wise. If I kiss a girl she stays with me all night so I think kissing is an often overlooked but effective if you can get that far, that seems to be my biggest hurdle!

Good post. I like mixing up my kisses, maximizing sexual tension. Also, I think it is key that I finish the kiss (rather than she does). We kiss, then I stop. Then re-ignite etc.

cool - I'd be interested in hearing how you go for the kiss. For many people, this is the biggest hurdle - those scarey few inches (or feet). For me, this is sometimes not the smoothest. Are you a grabber and a puller? How do you calibrate?

Anthony

Good post! Tom you are a Pimp!, I like your style.

From what i've seen with Tom he doesn't pussy foot around, when he senses its on he gets stuck right in.

It's interesting that quite a few girls regard the ability to be a good kisser as important, yet the majority of girls i've kissed have been pretty awful at it, only 2 girls can I say that I actually enjoyed kissing.

Sometimes I pull them in a little bit but not too much.

This is kissing! Calibrate sounds a bit like changing gear ratios or something mechanical

How do I know when she's ready to be kissed?

I'm no expert at getting to that stage but I think it's if things are going well, she's responding to you, laughing/intrigued etc and she doesn't mind you touching her then go for it.

I think it's obvious you have to have her comfortable with you touching her first, like touching her sides, around her waist or shoulders. How do you expect to kiss her lips if you haven't touched her first.

Sometimes I've got it wrong but not for a while (touch wood, queue random cock joke). I think if you move your head slightly closer and she is ok with that and if you can see it in her eyes, I know that's a bit vague but I don't really think about it too much when I'm in the moment.


You have to take control and dictate the style/rhythm/speed or just tell them playfully, like I told the bottom lip sucker something like "you really like my bottom lip don't you?"
If they go full on straight away then slow it down without tongues etc then build it back up.
If they're the opposite then you have to slowly build it up, if you do it right they'll be tearing your clothes off.
I once was seeing this girl that said she didn't like tongues but after getting more and more passionate she ended up putting her tongue down my throat. After when I said something about it she said she didn't remember doing it!

Good post Kowalski

I do the whole lean and pull back thing too... I love it when they press themselves all upon you.
As you touched on, you can tell a lot from the way a girl kisses you too. It can sometimes be like foreplay when she becomes really passionate and can be almot like them saying "Take me back now!"

As for the whole calibrating the kiss thing, I personally love the moment. Being a psychology geek I just find the whole thing interesting - and every time I kiss close, I am learning more and more

My two cents,

Ritz

Nice post man. I usually consciously try to do alot of what you've listed but if im drunk or whatever it just happens lol. I think I'm an alright kisser though, My first kiss lasted over an hour :| though I was 17 so I guess I was making up for lost time!

"girls I kissed on Saturday the first one was really full on tongue straight down my throat." - This is funny...how long was her tongue?

"sucking my bottom lip" i love girls who do this but most of the time i love girls who are open and want to try and play with new stuff. Kissing makes us more horny, the senses become more intense when it come to kissing...makes your mind relax. especially when you just close your eyes..

I don't mind a girl sucking my bottom lip but when it's constant it gets a bit annoying and weird.

Haha, is this the girl you met last night in Chorlton? Girls sucking my bottom lip gives me nightmares... I dated this one girl who did just that. It was bloody painful and my lip ended up bleeding afterwards!! I then told her to calm it down and she said I was kissing wrong! Nutter. Needless to say this only lasted a couple of dates.

I love kissing but do find a lot of girls pretty dissapointing in this department... there's me talking as if I'm an expert

No she's a totally awesome kisser! It was the curly blonde from that night in the venue, I got her to stop it but even after that it wasn't the best.