granted.... if i went out with the express idea of pulling, i would

but its feels weird to me going out just to pull women, does it not make u think that women have enuf over you to make u go out just for them.

I choose to look at it this way:

I go to the gym for a purpose. To get fit and have defined muscles.

Similarly,

I head out on a "lads night out" with a purpose. To get drunk, have some laughs and loads of fun. The focus of the evening is my group of friends and having a good time with them wherever we go. The evening may/may not involve women. There is no "strong intent" to get laid that night and no sadness if I don't approach and "do game".

I head out "on the pull" with forum lads/solo with a purpose. To get laid.

That mindset works for me. I believe this is in no way "improper" or "unethical" (that you shouldn't want to head out with the sole purpose of getting laid,.. you should only head out to have fun and getting laid will take care of itself.. etc etc etc

..Really? Doesn't get me laid thinking that way when I go out. But maybe that's just me :-) )

Yep, they sure do. They have plenty "over me" to make me want to head out just for them. And I love it :-)

fair play, but one day, when u get everythin u think u wont from women, u will be bored, and realise they are just human.

Maybe I will Phil. Maybe I won't. But if I do, it will be like a child getting bored of a new toy. There will always be plenty else to keep me excited in life. I love my holidays, I love my women, I love my friends, I love my family.. then there's career, property, maybe my own business.. one can get bored of anything and everything, just like one can never get bored of a few things.

It is just that when I choose to indulge in something, I like to immerse myself in it fully, with no holds barred. I'm no Budhdha or saint, and am a healthy young man, so I see no point in thinking along the lines of, "oh it will all be stale one day.. so why bother.. if it happens, it happens".

And if my thought process changes in the future, then it changes. That's life.