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Originally Posted by Phil
but its feels weird to me going out just to pull women
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I choose to look at it this way:
I go to the gym for a purpose. To get fit and have defined muscles.
Similarly,
I head out on a "lads night out" with a purpose. To get drunk, have some laughs and loads of fun. The focus of the evening is my group of friends and having a good time with them wherever we go. The evening may/may not involve women. There is no "strong intent" to get laid that night and no sadness if I don't approach and "do game".
I head out "on the pull" with forum lads/solo with a purpose. To get laid.
That mindset works for me. I believe this is in no way "improper" or "unethical" (that you shouldn't
want to head out with the sole purpose of getting laid,.. you should only head out to
have fun and getting laid will take care of itself.. etc etc etc
..Really? Doesn't get me laid thinking that way when I go out. But maybe that's just me :-) )
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Originally Posted by Phil
..does it not make u think that women have enuf over you to make u go out just for them
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Yep, they sure do. They have plenty "over me" to make me want to head out just for them. And I love it :-)