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oh no you've used the 'Wikipedia' word thats like using the bat signal for batman, Jay will be along anytime now.

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Originally Posted by Phil (Post 51239)

no offence to ur mate, what he says is true in a essence, but telling someone

just stop being assed ... RIGHT DO IT NOW, STOP BEING ASSED GO, GO

its easy to say from him coz its who he is, but to tell you "YOU NEED TO BE DOMINANT, BE DOMINANT NO GO GO"

its crap, if it was that easy, people would all be so... the reason i tell u to be a dickhead for a month, (NOT INDEFINITELY, EVERYONE NEEDS TO REALISE THIS IS A SHORT TERM LESSON & NOT A CHANGE)

you do this so u can understand what people like me understand... unless you experience it, you cant understand.

so next time u see ur mate, say to him... DO A MAGIC TRICK, Thats all u need to do, make urself dissapear now & ill give u a million quid.

people on this forum are forever sayin

Be yourself

Be confident

Dont care etc,

easy for them to say as that is wer they are, but what if your not any of the above, u must learn how to be one of the above.

look, do me a favour im not gonna say it again, 4 nights out, keep bein a prick, with a big smile, and just say whatever pops into ur head... dont apologise for it, just look for the funny side,

then in 4 weeks... message me & let me know wer u are...and you can go back to being kind & sweet... with a side to u however people wont cross

but in my opinion, the advice... RIGHT JUST CHANGE RIGHT NOW!!! GO ON DO IT... is crap & condescending.

and regards to living in kettering, if the close knit community is an issue, make some trips somewer u wont be seen again

Right this makes total sense to me now finally!!!you wont have to say it again Phil;)
Its clicked a bit more i need the experience of doing this to move on got it lol
I will ask my friend also about disapearing also haha
Knave why is this thread so interesting??as your reason is eluding me:s
Ill check out your wiki link Markuk as soon as ive finished typing this msg and sit down with a pen and paper and challenge my beliefs.
Right im gona stop moping and moaning and totally jump in with both feet as of 2mora no more procrastinating!!Phil you will be hearing from me in a few weeks i promise:D

You know my fourth rule? Never make a promise you can't keep.

I never promise unless im certain i will do it!!
Its become blatantly obvious to me that from sitting in reading and watching pua videos till im blue in the face for the past few months isnt gona get me what im after.Im gona have to go out into the big wide scary world and have a go,take the failures on the chin and hope and pray that something changes and i gain some of the experience and results that im yearning.Everyone else on here has had to go out and have a go right??!!
eerr I dont know your rules yet lol just out of general interest what are they??

Its a line from The Transporter films mate

Before focusing on PUA material I would focus on ending your relationship and sorting all that out

But yeah then you need to get experience in the big wide world

Never watched em mate,they are on my films to watch list but ive not found the time to watch em yet.
Ill tell u what Al_phaD sorting my situ out is my main priorty and obviously when it is i can concentrate on my game unhindered.I certainly dont plan or expect ill pick someone up right now anyways.Im just giving it a go at least if i can start doing something i might be able to lift the depression a bit and feel like im at least making a bit of a start.