To echo what Phil said, these parts are actually worrying IF you wanted to some commitment from her. The fact you don't raise these as an issue is perhaps telling.

its just a little baffling too me

She has a very naive attitude to guys...in the sense some 50yr perve from the stable she works at trys to chat her up on fb..

I say " just tell him to fuck off and delete him "

her response " I dont want it to be akward at the stables when i see him "

This blew my mind and I ignored it as it annoyed me

I know she isnt gf material..its just puzzling how she has this attitude at 17 having been with only 1 guy ( me ) and hasnt been fucked around in a major way yet...

i dunno who agrees with me on this but my thoughts,

girls who have had alot of sexual partners

are more inclined to be faithful coz its not only out of their system but they appreciate the difference between and average & a good thing

a girl with little experience is naive and want to try new stuff out.

i see myself as a male version of the first example.

maybe u should think outside the box

I agree with that statement

thinking out of the box I feel that..

She is naive and young..doesnt know how to deal with these sort of situations

She see's this lad at college every day.. so at the risk of telling him to fuck off she may not know how to act or deal with seeing him the next day

And if she thinks she is actually not going to do anything with him..then flirting with him wont hurt

This is how I think she is interpreting the situation

I'm glad Phil said what he did here, because until that point I was tearing my hair out.

She's obviously one of these girls whose 'too nice' to decline a guy (they make the worst gfs). But also she has a few years to make up. 17 is pretty late for some girls to loose it. You've opened her pandora's box for sexual conquest. Well done.

Also, just to repeat what Phil said:

She thinks you're both going out.

Yet she's still open to having her cunt licked (excuse pun)

...and therefore she's a fucking *make choices and regret them instantly* overly-nice SLAG.

An overly nice slag who as of yet.. hasnt been with anyone else ( yet or to my knowledge ! )

I am going to confront her tonight..tel lher she left her fb open and I seen the messages

If I was a total cunt id post the pictures I took of her doing very odd things

i think ur lying to yourself, and in a few months when u back out of the situation, u will look back & think

AM I FUCKIN MESSIN!!!

its difficult sometimes to accept that your perception of someone is wrong, especially if it means accepting you mean less to them than you thought.

shes bad news mate... any girl pre 24 is bad news, its called being young.

get rid! before you end up turnin into a little whiney bitch

Regardless of whether she has or not done anything with someone else, she's openly agreed to it, which face it is more or less the same (intentionally, anyway).

Take a step back from this and imagine the same situation with a girl you didn't give a shit about.

She will suck your self worth out of your balls. And I'm not talking about the sexy way...

to which she will turn her goo eyes at you & you will buy it.

I know where this situation is going, its going to HELP REMOVE THIS BAD FEELING I HAVE CENTRAL!

the fact is, she wants to test this new guy out, u thought u had her hook-line & now ur ego is shot coz she has another play thing.

if someone MERELY conspired to murder you... would you hand them the gun?