Id tell her to go fuck her self

My heads a little fucked with this one

What, like painting a fridge in honey while dressed in a bear suit?

That doesn't make any sense, 'revenge' wouldn't solve this or make you feel better.

I think this is the same girl you referred to in the 'once you've got it' post? Well, now you think you don't have it anymore. So it's doing your head in, right?

I dont feel like seeking revenge, and yes thats the same girl from that post

My ego is hurt a little...but that doesnt bother me too much

Its just a shock that she has done this...not that im god and no women would cheat on me...more the fact that im the first guy she has been with..and its only been a month

It's OK man, it happens.

We're here for you x

fucksake look at all this whoring banter

if you only had eyes for her and you were doing things properly ie not dipping in others fannies THEN you should blow her out the water
BUT you are not
im gonna confront her ooooooooohhhhhh big bad whatever the feck your name is

maybe she is open to this guy licking her pussy (and i bet she wouldnt go through with it) because:

a)She is young and naieve
b)she is an attention seeker
c)she thinks whatever you and her have isnt going anywhere because she thinks you arent that interested - in truth because your time for her is spent txting and whoring other chicks

in regards to Phils comment
you big nonce!

you can only speak statistically because there are exceptions to every rule
girls who have had lots of partners are as likely to want a committed relationship as are of being fucked up and needy and mistaking fucking for love -hence NOT trustworthy

Older girls V younger girls ive known plenty from both parties that have been honorable, faithful, not flirted with anyone and aswesome relationship material
ive also known laods from both parties that are the total opposite

every case is different
use your own judgment

but as a big fat stereotypical answer i agree - younger girls in general dont know what they want, if you get with them early and they havnt had any other partners you will get ejected by the time they hi 28 and feel their life is vanishing

Your missing the point.

It's not about whether she's seeing other guys while she thinks she's in a relationship and is therefore no good as a gf but still perfectly operational as a fb.

The problem lies in the fact that 'big bad whatever the feck your name is' has now flipped from seeing her as a needy little tag along to becoming the needy little tag along, because shes fucking around with his head.

THATS why he has to blow her off and move on. Obviously as it's got to this stage now, it's passed the point of no return. Once you get feelings for a girl, it's either GirlFriend or GetFucked.

the whoring banter was just gaining perspective of the situation( for me ) and gaining other peoples opinions in the process

I have already stated im in the wrong but regardless of what going on in my head she still acted that way

This isnt eating away at me or depressing me...I have other things to worry about. But I wanted to hear everyone thoughts

I was more pissed off a few days ago when I first found out

when I first read this I thought 'just give her an extra good seeing to' lol. Even if she does stray, she will probably think 'o that wasnt very good in comparison' and come back. this ofcourse is not going to end ur life bcos u are also seeing other people. sorted

Yeh. I don't get it. She's a woman, THEREFORE...she has options when it comes to men. Always has. Always will. This should come as no surprise. It isn't news. She's done nothing wrong.

All you can ever worry about is keeping your own end up. If the fucks and the gaps between the fucks are 'fun' stick around until they ain't. And once they ain't...jog on. Life's too short for anything else.