I'm the man to speak to here. I can speak from experience when I say that any woman of any kind of value will run a mile if you send out facetious/downright nasty texts just because she takes a while to reply. I blew it with a cool girl by using some smart-alec, snotty line to call her out on the fact she hadn't text me back and it wasn't cool.

Best solution: don't mention the fact it takes her a day or so to reply. Keep doin' ya thang, occupy yourself more so you don't notice shit like how many minutes she's taken to reply to a text.

Next best solution: pop off a cheeky text along the lines of "too cool to text me back straight away are we? Your face is gay". Throw in a "" for good measure.

Blanca, I can't believe it took you so long to speak out on this one. If you'd only said this sooner, I could have learnt from your mistakes, instead of making my own, near identical ones.

She wasn't impressed. Now I can't even return the baby clothes to the shop because I got them embodied with their names - I hadn't discussed these with her yet but I'm sure she'd have loved them.

My life is ruined.

I think we should have a 6 minute reply rule on this forum from now on.

I take it you won't be applying this rule to texts too.

There was a lot of self-deprecating sarcasm in my last post. You only sensed some of it?

I just couldn't resist HammerTime.

Not many girls can.

BOOM.

Nova - My apologies, I couldn't resist. Usually there is hidden truth in jokes men make, in this instance there is none. Many, many girls can resist me.

K - All humour is fully understood by HammerTime.

ive shagged ur dad

MC Hammer?

Hmmm... this thread is going down hill now.

ive learned this the hard way over many many women


1:they are leaving replying a set time to not come across as too keen (when they are)
2:you are just not THAT important to them, they have other guys , you are just a filler, or somthing they think wont go anywhere
3:they are genuinely busy-- with their career-- family issues

best way to deal with ALL those at once and WIN
dont let it bother you and put it to the back of your mind - reply when you want to reply, wether its straight away or not

but i hear you say 'oh im really into this girl' OR 'oh im not that arsed about her but its bugging me'

the best way to handle that is to have MULTIPLE girls on the go at the same time-- i recommend about 3 or 4

it works!