To be honest I went through phases where I was studying everything I could get hold of any PUA whose material I found interesting I read but never really copied any of their famous openers or canned routines...for me it was some kind of eye opener in certain things I didn't get when I was younger ... I watched Discovery PUA from London while he was doing his thing and wasn't very impressed. I personally know when I am a little bit bad it works for me very well and if I am "MR nice " i usually do not get very far ... I do not know Phil , I bet u r more experienced than me , probably had more women than me and being yourself works for u very well ... My problem is that i thinK I can get woman very fast , but can loose her even faster ... most of the time I do not care but If she is as nice as the one I talked about I just wonder what I f***ed up this time ....

u looked at her through the eyes of a subordinate.

as far as im concerned NOT A SINGLE WOMAN ON THIS EARTH is too good for me

if i met megan fox 2mora, i would be exactly the same, and still think i had a shot! coz she is just human with a fit appearance!

this is all

Just to throw my two penneth in consider this angle.....

You fecked a girl in one night.... Played, well done, sounds like this was your objective and you succeeded.

I have done the pof thing too, my ex was a serial fisher and would put out in the first night regularly. Me on the other hand took a couple of dates. I ended up being her first proper love and subsequent boyfriend. This from a girl who said implicitly that she didn't do relationships... In her eyes I was different to all the others, I sat back, my motive wasn't sex its was enjoying the moment with her.

Point is that even of your game Is at it very best your true motive will shine through. You wanted a shag and you got one, if your motive was to find a girlfriend then maybe you wouldn't have pursued sex on the first night and this would resonated more with her and the qualities she seeks from a boyfriend.

Your horney, you want sex and you're getting it......roll with it, enjoy the fruits and fuck anyone else's opinion.

sounds like her personal issues rather than yours. Which, like usual, means don't worry about it.

I agree that you have to be yourself Phil however I would also say that you need to be a strong self.

18months ago I wasn't strong and it took a little "fake it till you make it" style confidence before I could get there.

i was refering to his TRYING to be a bad boy comment when i said be urself!

i actually meant, dont try & act like dany zuko unless u have a leather jacket to back it up

Fair one, I thought you meant in general. I had a leather jacket once, felt a bit of a prick wearing it...

hehe I have my leather jacket and something else in common with Danny Zuko ..Return back to that bad boy thing ... To be honest I don't have to play much , frankly most of my exes thought when they met me that I was a proper arrogant D**K however very attractive to them ... hmm be myself what if being myself means being a bad guy who doesn't show his gentle side until he trust someone ... would it be alright or still kind of gay

"fake it till you make it"....sounds about right ... well if u were whole your life left behind while the other were having fun why not ? I totally support that idea ...

I totally agree with u ... I worked with the most gorgeous women in the world and there is no different between them and some ordinary girl u met in Club ...
I have a new thing that I let my love making tool decide who is my new target ...so far so good ...