jjust stop thinkin about it

I've noticed that I can get vast difference in day-to-day responses between me wearing my leather jacket and my peat coat. Peat coat I'm less threatening (I'm 6'5" for reference) so I have to put forward more of a thrilling personality, while if I'm wearing my leather jacket I have to put forth an average-fun-guy personality and smile A LOT.

Personally I don't give a shit most of the time and act the same way no matter what (half the time I forget what I'm wearing), but I have definitely seen a difference in how I'm treated by which one I'm wearing.

Leather jackets = rapists

hehe ... No matter what u wear but how u wear it and present yourself to a public view ... I work in a fashion business and sometime do a little bit of fashion advisor to men and also women ... I had a guy once who was dressed only in the most expensive clothes and he didn't know how to wear them , women didn't give a falafel about him , over a cup of tea we talk about his taste of fashion and his love live ...fashion was alright however love life ..well so took him to PRIMARK ( no kidding) We choose clothes and he had to wear it for a day ... he was getting the same responses just like when he was wearing his expensive clothes ... We talk about certain kind of wolfing , his personal appearance , smiling etc ... guy is doing great now ..so it is not about what u wear but how u wear it ...

I had a similar experience. I've known a girl over the last few years and in that period she has put me into the friend zone (the one without benefits) and is now kissing other guys infont of me e.g. on my birthday night out. Personally I find it hard to see that in front of me. I cant even call her babe anymore. It has to be buddy or something like that. In my opinion, the more you have sex with a girl. The more attached or needy you become to her. Especially if you get on well and see her over a period of time. If she then decides to be just friends, the attraction is dead and the only thing you cab do is call her mate a lot and go with other girls infont of her. See how she likes it when you do the same. Cuz after all WERE JUST FRIENDS, RIGHT?!

Then try to be the fun non needy guy that she was attracted to in the first place. It's only when you are doing well and not caring that you will do better.

Lavo

Well, to be honest I am over her ... replaced her for a newer model who is as insecure as the rest of previous once ... My problem is that even though I know how to play with their minds n the most of the women I am interested in it never last due to them having the exactly the same mind set ... How come u r still single ? or other bull shit such as when u r not with me I bet u F***ing some1 else .... I decided not to take any woman seriously ...So no hard feeling if she can trust me than se can f*** some loser who might seem needy n do whatever she wants but soon or later she gets bored n end up with some1 else probably like me .... so GUYS F em all ...

BTW tried to get her back n she toted me that there is no future between us n I replied that I didn't know that she was a fortune teller and whether she uses tarot cards or a glass ball ( I have two balls she can read whole day long) she didn't reply I think that she wouldn't be able to read my balls ....

ur problem lies in your statement

Well, whether u like it or not we all play with each other minds .... Whatever u say to a woman affects her decision whether she ends up sleeping with u or not ..... and that's what is called a magic of communication , tonality of your voice n of course body language are keys to a positive result ...Iam sure I do not have to talk about it with u dear Phil...