Pickle no. 1

I met this girl, didn't sleep with her, she had a fit freind which i fancied then we ended up falling out even though i never made a move on her. Turned out she was a bit of a psyco.

Pickle no. 2

I meet this girl (will call her girl 1 to keep things simple). We got on like a house on fire then did some stuff etc but never slept together. She became somewhat emotionaly invested and fell for me pretty quickly. Then! I met her mate girl 2. I told girl 1 ealier on that i didn't fancy her etc. After some emotional phonecalls she said she was ok about it and that she was over me. A few weeks later i did a test to see if she was and she wasn't. At all. She again has told me that she is, which brings me to the current situation. Girl 2 is super fit etc and girl 1 isn't super fit but hot. They are very very very close. To the point that if i write on girl 2's Facebook girl 1 will also write on the same thread. It appears to me that because girl 1 couldn't have me she is ruining with girl 2 and me. I'm more than confident that there could be something between myself and girl 2 but i know that girl 1 would get involved at the first site. I know already girl 2 has been told things by girl 1 which has tainted my chances. I just realy like her and the only way i can think of getting her is to somehow build enough attraction with out girl 1 finding out so that when girl 1 does find out she can't convince girl 2 out of it. It's almost as if girl 1 can't have me than no one can. I understand that it is hard for girl 1. I've had this done to me many a time in the past. Help!

I think, although by no means certain, you have a similar problem to me. 2 girls who are mates, you fancy one and other fancies you. You want to get with the one you fancy but can't due to her loyalty towards the other one (or in your case she just seems to be getting in the way). Love triangle!

Yeah I need advice on this too, so am jumping on this pickle bandwagon. Any advice?

Furthermore you should all read the link that Amit posted! It is the best field report on here!

No disrespect to the dude who started this thread but ive been LMFBO for about an hour now at amits post

avoid both. The games that girl1 is going to put you through will not be worth having girl2... plus you're gonna break up whatever the two of them have and put plenty of friction between their friendship, and then even if you have girl2 she's just gonna cry on your shoulder about girl1 OR not fully trust you since girl1's been talking about you already.

Or you can try and talk 'logic' to girl1 and tell her you like girl2, but fuuuuuuck that won't work unless you're smooth as a newborn's ass. Which is unlikely.

Either way, they're not worth your mental sanity.