I think, although by no means certain, you have a similar problem to me. 2 girls who are mates, you fancy one and other fancies you. You want to get with the one you fancy but can't due to her loyalty towards the other one (or in your case she just seems to be getting in the way). Love triangle!

Yeah I need advice on this too, so am jumping on this pickle bandwagon. Any advice?

Furthermore you should all read the link that Amit posted! It is the best field report on here!