Calling all small towners!

Will post field reports soon but bottom line is, been on a small island in the Caribbean for 3 weeks. I live here. Last couple of weekends I've fucked two different birds. The whole island knows about it! There are various photos circulating of me dry humping on beach. I'm not used to this small community! People are all talking and my flat mate is upset cos I brought a bird back and she views it as inconsiderate!

Initially I thought I was coming across as studly, but worried I'm just being viewed as a slime ball! Could hinder my chances with future girls!

How do people manage multiple partners in small communities? Nothing like London this!!

dont let it be an issue, revel in it...

YES I FUCK DIFF WOMEN??? SO WHAT LIKE?

if u try to talk urself out of it, u talk yourself into it

russell brand revels in his slag like nature & women love him for it

ah, yes... similar to my current situation at school (shit spreads like wildfire).

Best bet is to be upfront about everything that happened, and act as if it was casual. If you can hold your frame that way, other people will slowly begin to adopt it as well.

And next time you should assume that people in small groups are going to talk. Sleeping around your social groups is a COMPLETELY different game than knowing you'll never see a girl at a bar ever again

@phil Kind of what I was thinking before and also what I wanted to hear! Thanks!
Just got a bit peturbed when I realised flat mate was peeved and everyone was chatting shit. 1st girl has gone now so is cool, 2nd is still here and people are asking what the deal is with us now which I find mental!. As long as I'm honest and don't give off serious vibes should be cool. Is just bit different from london where everyone knows your business, but then ilike you said celebs have this all time and works for them!

@lucidfer, cheers I think honesty is best way and not show I'm fussed. Are you quite happily fucking birds in your social group with no issues? Does feel like uni this in terms of everyone knowing stuff but way more so!!

no, in fact I'm pretty much given up on trying to get with anyone at my school of 650 students. Hell, I make out with one girl, and the next night half the school knows. When she wants a relationship immediately and I say no way, I lose half a dozen friends because I refuse to belong to any single clique. It's bullshit of the highest degree, and I won't sink to their level to play silly games.

Art school kids are fucked in the head... their campus is so tightly knit that drama gets blown up 20 times fold what it should, to the point I don't care about gaming there anymore. I'm so glad I live off campus and spend most of my time with people from outside the school... plus I don't want to burn any bridges with other people in my major (animators tend to rely on one another in the job market, and help each other know about job opportunities.)


Snakeeyes, your best bet would be to act like it's nothing at all... some girls will be put off, and others will be attracted. And honestly, you'd really only want the ones who are attracted to that sort of behavior anyway, so wouldn't they all be doing you a favor by making their intentions to you clear?

only downside is it might get a little boring for the next week or three as everyone tries to figure out where your attitude stands...

Haha not what I wanted to hear! I don't have the option of fucking outsiders until tourist season starts in dec! Locals are pretty rough mostly and resentful of expats!

To be honest, and line with what you say, this sort of behaviour is part of who I am and I make no excuses for that. If they like it they like it if not then oh well. Unless I meet a girl I proper fall for and want to get serious with then I'm going to just carry on as such. My main concern, as yours is, is my career. Although handled right way slaggy rep shouldn't be too bad as long as I don't start fucking peoples missuses which I won't. Plus I'm good at my job which is what should matter.

The lads are secretly jelous and chicks secrely all want to shag you, despite what they may say publicly

Another suggestion i might add is are theyre options to visit other nearby locations??
Ie hot babe near you and another hot babe at location b and another at location c?
Saves all the hassle chatter etc as you are at least several miles removed from you small town location with each.Im sort of doing similar at mo.its not fool proof but usually keeps all the nosey bastards from sticking their noses in my business haha

Other towns are a boat ride away!

The main issue now is my flat mate! She was really put out this weekend and stayed at her mates house as she didn't want to hear us fucking! She is also a bit negative and just overall a bit different to me. Plus she smells a bit. I'm a real idiot should not have agreed to move in with her! She is also my junior at work! I'm trapped in year contract! Only way out is if I find someone to take room off me I suppose.

Other issue is girl 2 - younger sister of girl connected to another one of my new social groups here. Only found out after I pulled her. Might rock boat a bit! Just need to remain casual without upsetting girl 2!

There are strip joints and whore houses here, so at least I got a plan B

Oh yeah issue 3 - didn't go to beach on sunday so looked like I was hiding my head in shame, which wasn't case at all as I was just busy and hungover tbh! Bit of a social faux pah apparenyly - people treatin it like I missed the bloody moon landing!!