some girls need a bit of time to get comfortable before they become more confident/dirty. I know it's just shoes but she might have thought it was a strange request.
I don't know how many times you've seen her but I wouldn't call it a dealbreaker or anything if it was the 1st time.

i don't need to be teaching a girl how to have sex. had i pulled a machette out & gone for some knife play, fair enuf, but it was heels... during sex...

thats just normal, not near kinky.

Phil

you were looking at her as a play thing, a shag, a bit of a laugh - so naturally, when you ahve no feelings for somone and are not looking to get into a relationship sex with that person is boring, especially when you have plenty of girls to fuck-- you end up wanting somthing a bit different a bit naughtier.

from her point of view no matter what she said to you regarding her wants - she really wants a relationship with you and doesnt want to give you everything you desire straight away as she feels that if you are just in it for a good time you will then get bored and do one.

another problem is hot girls are not used to guys that value themselves highly and often dont know how to act, they carry on with the 'every guy loves me' mindset which is completely incompatible with you.

Phil might i suggest you venture into the world of foreign chicks - they are ace in bed, eager to please their man, hot, often are slim with big tits

i always want somethin naughtier..... relationship or not

here for me is what the issue is this, which is a copy & paste from what i told a gir last night when asking me for advice.


"school mentality"

makes girls fearfull of bein ridiculed as a slag because everyone knows everyone they must be carefull of what they do, all the boys they know are part of the same LARGE social groups & will embelish in the truth for the 14 year old ego boost

women then leave school with a mindet that they MUST ACT DIFFERENTLY THAN THEY FEEL to save social outcast, however, when u leave school, u also leave the close social dynamic, u can fuck as many people u like, nobody will ever find out coz nobody knows the person u fucked
ur nameless

women dont get this & continue acting like school girls "oh i must wait for a few weeks so im not a slag, i cant act good in bed what if he tells everyone im a slag"

but he doesnt know anyone u know

nobody he knows know u

so u leave urself with this idea men are cunts, coz they keep fuckin u off after they realise UR SHIT IN BED
but ur not really, u just want to appear that way at first
and it continues untill u ont trust lads

we just want someone like us! we want a lady in the street & a freak in the bed!

Have you ever left someone who was good in bed, ie just ignored them after a while?

I don't think the men with the "love you and leave you" attitude are leaving because the women are crap in bed, some men just want to use them for the sexual release...or maybe they were good in bed but just didn't get along as a good match.

fuck off mate... im sure ur half girl.

if a girl is a nobhead, but amazin in bed.... granted u may not have her as a bird... but u will fuck her again. just coz wen ur horny, u want good sex.

if a girl is proper sound... but has a smelly beaver and lies there like a wet lettuce.... ur not gonna wanna fuck her again!


sex is sex

personality is personality.

i need both! for a bird

Haha quote of the day! Made me piss myself at work


I think if you have a FB you still need personality although you can conceed a little on the qualities you need for a relationship

However in a relationship I need physical and mental fulfilment.

Are you looking for a relationship Phil or a casual thing with somebody decent?

So basically you've lost interest in birds. Time to move onto blokes then. I think we all knew this would happen eventually.

PS

they are even worse outside, i know some proper tidy bird... from london, fingered her, i nearly spewed wen i pulled my fingers out

OMG who are these girls...

this is a girl who is a self proclaimed intellectual, uni grad! feminist, owns a few properties

NOB HEAD.

girls who think they are too intelligent to conform to mens wants... so they dress and act like men..

such a waste of a gud lookin girl

Fuck off yourself.
You'll never find what you're looking for because it doesn't exist.
I'm not sure anyone is as cynical about girls as you.