15-12-2011, 08:13 AM
This is true and I've read it in many places online.
But how does one change their head so that they self-validate as opposed to needing external sources, especially after years of growing up in the UK where it is the social norm to seek validation from parents, carers, teachers, friends etc.
Me personally, I think I do need some external validation at the moment, though it is something I am aware of and working on. I've started my own "feel good blog" type thing on Microsoft OneNote that I read daily, full of my favourite quotes and feel good shit reaffirming my awesomeness.
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