I read a lot of messages on here which go along the lines "oh i want to bang this", "i banged a hot 10" or whatever. So my question to everyone is what exactly is it you want to achieve from all this PUA stuff, do you want to bang maybe 50 woman or 100 woman in lifetime?? are you banging girls for bragging rights among your Peers??? What goals do you have relating to PUA?

The questions we should all be asking are not how to get woman! If you need to ask this you need to start valuing yourself more.

AJay

I don't know what I want and herein lies the problem. I want to fuck loads of girls cos I've got a pair of balls but that's just an urge. just cos I wan't a cake doesn't meen it's good for me or will make me happy.

that's what people want, to be happy but maybe finding out what will could be worse than not knowing cos if you can't get it you're fucked.

I think its a case of trying things and from that you gain new information on what you want.

AJay

All of them!

Thats the mindset of a true pua.

If you get what you want, you will just want more..

Also, if you know you can have what you want, you won't want it as much

Not intentionally, good spot..

Just joining in with all the "paradoxial" stuff happening today

How about choice/options!!!
The choice to screw as many as you can get your dirty little paws on or just have one amazing ltr!!

Before all this girlfriends just fell into my lap, a friend of mine would be like, "My friend thinks your cute." and of course I'd end up dating her because I'd take anything almost as long as she was cute as fuck.

I want to know that if I see a cute girl anywhere I can walk up and make her mine, whether it happens or not at least I know I tried. If I get her even better because I MADE IT HAPPEN and not because she had to make the initial move.

Also to be more confident around women. I was a insecure freak before all of this. Now I'm a lot more confident and feel like a sexy ass beast, LOL!

I wanna fuck 1000 hot chicks.

Im nowhere near as good as i wanna be, but i know im gunna get there.

Certain things are holding me back from unleashing my full potential.

I was even considering putting PUA on the back burner for a while till i have less drama going on....only cos its hard to concentrate on so many varied & different things going on in my life.

But like Hydro said, i too wanna go up to the hottest girl in ANY situation & pull her cos u are the coolest muthafucka she has ever met.

I started off wanting to increase my numbers (quality had never been an issue) or getting an LTR because i could pull but not get a day2.

then i came on here... and I saw that I needed to work on my social game. My friends now know me as a guy who can strike up a conversation with anybody and always has a couple of hot girls to date.

i still want to be better and will always try to improve but now numbers aren't the issue, i want the girl who compliments me, challenges me but respects me BUT I am not fussed on a timescale or rushing it along.