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Stein · 19-09-2011, 12:06 PM

I said I'd be doing this in my 80s as a joke. To be honest though I don't see anything wrong with a guy in his 40s/50s going out to pick up.

My own dad was in his 50s and dating a girl in her 20s. I think it's a social stereotype that a guy in his 40s/50s picking up is more of a creepy loner than a charlie sheen.

Again, let's not forget that doing this is FUN, regardless of success. If I feel like going out in my 40s then why not? And if I don't I'll just beast some Church hall biscuit socials, find a saggy DTF divorcee, then settle down and devote the rest of my life to jigsaws and shit.

SmileyK · 19-09-2011, 07:59 PM

Great thread.

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Originally Posted by Phil

to win someone over you have to start out in their eyes as a subordinate ... and by trying to win them over your accepting so...

i refuse to allow anyone to hold me in a position of servitude..... infact, this was what i did when i was younger.

just typing now has made me realise, all these PUA's are doin what i did for years, try to win girls over with thoughts of IF I DO THIS, IF I DO THAT

i only became in complete control of women in my life when i decided not to chase! by being this person women are more attracted to u anyway.

sods law.

so the snap point when a pua becomes a normal person who is good with women is when they stop doing it from beneath the women... and elevating themselves past PUA

and just doing it when its needed.

This.

ninjaelephant · 20-09-2011, 12:52 PM

For me it is part Sex and my " needs " but mainly it is a social experiment that will help me put all the peices together to realise what I want and how I get it from a women.

Each girl that I date/bang/spend time with gives me insight and opens my eyes more. I have made tons of mistakes and learnt...crafted and become a better person from it

I love the mystery of how women think/act and getting a chance to learn from all awkward/good experiences will ultimately help me in life

Stein · 20-09-2011, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski

... and this is total double-think, sounds like religious fanaticism:

You say it is only about the doing for the doing, like a religious ceremony.
You would carry on even if it was ineffective, like prayer.
You say 'feeling bad = feeling good', double-think like where Jesus says the weak are the strong.

I hear people trying to convince themselves.

Wake up kids.

Peace,

kowalski

What I meant by that is that bad nights happen where you dont get anywhere, but it's funny and it's an adventure. I'd rather go out get rejected and have a massive laugh than do nothing.
I go out with my mates and try and be a normal person and just chode about and dance, and I end up approaching because regardless of what happens it's so much fun.
When I say shit like it feels good even when it feels bad I'm not being literal. I wrote that as a direct contradiction for a laugh

However as Jesus said:
'The guy willing to make a prick out of himself shall inherit the vagina. The other guy will just be bored' - Matthew 25;17

AJay · 21-09-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ninjaelephant

I love the mystery of how women think/act and getting a chance to learn from all awkward/good experiences will ultimately help me in life

Woman are the Same as you mate, they are hoping to find MR RIGHT who they can settle down and have a family with at some point in there life..... but in the meantime they will just keep searching........ 99% of woman do not have the intelligence or outlook on life for me to want to settle down with them. SO IN MY HUMBLE OPINION IT ISNT A FUCKING MYSTERY.

AJay

ninjaelephant · 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by AJay

Woman are the Same as you mate, they are hoping to find MR RIGHT who they can settle down and have a family with at some point in there life..... but in the meantime they will just keep searching........ 99% of woman do not have the intelligence or outlook on life for me to want to settle down with them. SO IN MY HUMBLE OPINION IT ISNT A FUCKING MYSTERY.

AJay

Hi AJay

I'm not sure you understood what I fully meant in my post or maybe I didnt portrait so well. For me every approach is a learning experience , If I try to close and fail I have some self reflection then try again learning from my mistakes ( IE interviewing a girl too much or being too forward etc )

I feel that the older I get and the more women I meet/talk too, I feel more confident to approach the next. 6 months ago I couldn't distinguish IOI's properly and 9/10 times failed to close a night out with a number, now I can spot IOIs properly and I am more confident and successful closing

Reading about other PUA's experiences and advice and extracting bits for my self is massively helping my cause!

so no need for the rampant spree of CAPITAL LETTERS

NinjaElephant

AJay · 01:26 PM

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so no need for the rampant spree of CAPITAL LETTERS

THE RAMPANT SPREE OF CAPITAL LETTERS IS OVER. I AM WHAT ALOT OF PEOPLE WOULD CALL "an asshole", ITS ONE OF MY PERSONAITY TRAITS, NOTHING PERSONAL.

"the happy world of haribo"

AJay

ninjaelephant · 22-09-2011, 01:43 PM

[quote=AJay;56098]

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Originally Posted by ninjaelephant

so no need for the rampant spree of CAPITAL LETTERS

THE RAMPANT SPREE OF CAPITAL LETTERS IS OVER. I AM WHAT ALOT OF PEOPLE WOULD CALL "an asshole", ITS ONE OF MY PERSONAITY TRAITS, NOTHING PERSONAL.

"the happy world of haribo"

AJay

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