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Phil · 24-07-2011, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by AJay

Maybe your a retard

AJay

or maybe it makes no sense... whos paying who money?

AJay · 24-07-2011, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Phil

or maybe it makes no sense... whos paying who money?

Jesus are you flirting with me?, i only wanted to know where the barber shop was

such forwardness when you havent even taken me out yet, you should be ashamed of yourself

AJay

AJay · 24-07-2011, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by niknak

Totally agree. Ulterior motive is obvious unless you are literally standing right next to girls in a social environment, but even then...

In my opinion it really does mean shit whether you have an ulterior motive or not.... as long as you are fucking proud to have that motive and have no issues conveying it through your body language or eye contact. I mean opening with an indirect opener to get things going is fine, you can always say later "by the way i didnt really need a barber shop, i just wanted to fuck you".

AJay

chops147 · 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by camarda

the human species have been around since the dawn of time. evolving. all of our parents, survived, adapted to the environment, succeeded. we stand on the shoulders of giants. giants being all of our past evolution. from that tiny microbe.

do you know how perceptive we are as humans? any ulterior motive, is easily recognisable. as it seems odd. it doesn't flow. like the elephant in the room.

what is the answer? become the worlds best actor, which is still insufficient and at best a living hell? or relax. and take things a bit easier. and recognise you are placing your happyness and well being on trying to find a woman, which at the end of the day won't serve you in anyway shape or form.

technically we could have evolved to be good at deceiving just as much as we are at perceiving deceit.
In fact adrenaline increases acting ability so one could reason from this that we have evolved to be able to deceive each other.

AJay · 24-07-2011, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by camarda

converying through body language and eye contact?'. nobody needs to think about that. it comes natural. doesnt even need to be talked about.

What? this is the most important part of communication with another human..... Verbals mean very little...people need to stop caring so much about what they say but how they say it, the truth is it just doesnt come natural to most people.

AJay

AJay · 24-07-2011, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by camarda

jay this isn't the greatest post i've read from you. its good you're trying to help but the above is just plain cringe.

No problem i understand why you cringe.

AJay

aofelix · 25-07-2011, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by camarda

jay this isn't the greatest post i've read from you. its good you're trying to help but the above is just plain cringe.

'converying through body language and eye contact?'. nobody needs to think about that. it comes natural. doesnt even need to be talked about. and talking about it merely creates more pointless points to think about. which sends people spiralling into nowhere.

"by the way i didn't really need a barber ship, i just wanted to fuck you", this is vile...

Agreed... you're not "fucking proud enough" to be direct but you're proud enough to halfway through a conversation say that. wow.

niknak · 25-07-2011, 06:09 PM

The OP must now be thinking WTF! lol.

chops147 · 25-07-2011, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by camarda

you are like a hampster on a wheel. thinking if he runs a little faster he will get there.

love this.