Well I am just going to keep trying. Another day another lunch break. Lets see who is out there today shell we?

Good attitude!

Sometimes dont wait for a reply, look at the body language and sense they are a bit freaked out then follow up with something like this..

"Hey do you know where a barber shop is?"
(freaked out looks)
"Jesus dont panic ive not come to sell you anything, do you usually pay money to speak with handsome men or something?"

AJay

That is a epic comeback. A combo neg and a self booster thing. I forgot what the word for that was. I am actually looking forward to the next freak out look now.

Cheers much man !

I think they call it a DHV (demonstration of higher value).... anyway being confident is a DHV in itself..... treat them like your little sister. Imagine you are a king and they are merely peasants. One trick i learnt, if you want to move a girl to another location, is to just say something like "follow me".... (then what most people do is continue to look at the girl as if waiting for the go ahead to walk away)... do not do this, jus say "follow me" then walk straight off.... even walking as your saying it.... and dont look back!

AJay

Ya the Mystery method right ? I am busy watching a video about it. I am learning so much from it. I have to admit I am finding all the parts about how the brain is hard wired to be very interesting.

I think once I learn some more I must get me a mentor to help me refine my execution ....

i dont get it??

No wonder they gave you funny looks, WTF - why would a girl know where a barber shop is? lol.

Indirect is even worse for day-game than it is for night game. You're asking a random question then trying to keep a conversation going after you have your answer, which just seems totally weird TBH. More normal in a social setting, but on a street, no. Added to this they're in the mindset of going from place A to place B, why would they want to stop and have a conversation with a random stranger, either a guy or a girl?

I suggest doing such research on a good structure for day-game. HINT: you have to be direct. Take a look here Vids | Sasha PUA

Maybe your a retard

AJay

Totally agree. Ulterior motive is obvious unless you are literally standing right next to girls in a social environment, but even then...

Maybe it's not obvious in the culture where a lot of this pickup 'material' originated, I couldn't say, but here in the UK it can be obvious and you just look like a pussy.

With my limited experience I've formed the opinion that indirect is pretty much a waste of time both for me and the 'target'.

I think there are levels of being direct - i.e social direct vs sexual direct, statements of intent etc, but I think it's important fairly on to acknowledge that you are actively hitting on a girl (either by words, tone, body language, flirting-teasing, kino etc) in order to convey some sort of alpha-ness.

As I say, I'm not massively experienced in this, but personally I just feel like a beta-male if I don't do it.