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Default 13-06-2011, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by mccpcorn View Post
Hi guys.

I'm struggling to stay detached from the whole approach and talk thing. I attach importance to it, make it a big deal, and consequently I get sandbagged by AA and usually can't get past it to even speak to a gal.

Any tips on how I can relax, have fun and not make such a big internal fuss over this?

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AA can be overcome if you can overcome the anxiety you feel. my advise is to be more confidant. the same advise a million people would give. how do you do this? put yourself in the firing line, think more of yourself, theres no after life so make the most of this one. try this for a day to get you used to approaching.


approach a woman and say

"excuse me"

pause look her in the eye then say

"actually it doesnt matter"

then walk away

vary the style you do this in, cheeky smile, dominant, cowardly.;.. you are an actor practising for a new role!

practise your confidence when you do it. make sure your dressed with your nicest cloths, your looking your best, this will make u more confident.

anyway try this and get bak 2 me



AJay


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miliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions."

Last edited by AJay; 13-06-2011 at 01:23 PM.
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