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Originally Posted by samster
The key, as others have said here, is to be confident in YOURSELF. Once you have the appearing alpha will be natural. Up until that point you will need to push yourself.
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I agree. First you have to take care of yourself, pushing yourself, having always your own standards, aims and rules in every aspect of your life and most important not seeking validation from others (but rather let others validate themselves to you) makes you an Alpha. It requires determination and courage... the confidence will come naturally. But in the end it's worth it not only because you can get girls to be attracted to you, but your life as a whole will be better.