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chops147 · 30-03-2011, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by chillem

we've gone from women staying in the cave looking after the kids and being social with each other, and bonding through love and care, whilst men go out hunting, and bonding though killing...

to women having more freedom where they can choose to do almost anything that is traditonally thought of as the man's role

It's just a natural progression towards everything becoming more equal between the sexes. So it's inevitable that women will also have more freedom and opportunity to cheat just as much as men used to do, and men the freedom to fall in love just as easily

Personally I love that we are becoming more equal. I love the how I can meet all these different women, those who are cool with being a FB, those who are cool with ONS, those who are friends, those who fall in love and everything else inbetween

we're not talking about equality. we're talking about feminists trying to get us all wearing gimp masks and saying sorry. I'm totally for equality but feminists don't want equality they want the upper hand.

X & Y · 30-03-2011, 08:48 PM

My personal view is that in the long term, generally speaking, both man and woman share the same feelings and the same way of living the relationship, to some extent.

At the beginning it's different. For man is more infatuation, a way to "satisfy" his personal needs, but at the same time they start getting more and more attracted to the girl, feelings grow and become stronger and spontaneous. Strong connection and "long term view" come usually slowly and later. Girls generally focus more on connection from the beginning and, if they are around 30 or more, they want to understand from the beginning if there is potential for a long term relationship or not.

The final result/objective is the same, but the first approach is pretty different. I think this often leads to misunderstanding.

chillem · 30-03-2011, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by chops147

we're not talking about equality. we're talking about feminists trying to get us all wearing gimp masks and saying sorry. I'm totally for equality but feminists don't want equality they want the upper hand.

And that scares you?

There are many many more women who have their own ideas and feelings about male/female interactions and are not ultra-feminist

chops147 · 30-03-2011, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by chillem

And that scares you?

There are many many more women who have their own ideas and feelings about male/female interactions and are not ultra-feminist

my beef isn't with them and if you delve further into the site that I posted it goes on to say that most women don't want all that stuff. the right to work? who the fuck want to go to a monotonous boring place for 9 hours a day when you can look after the kids watching transformers