So ... i went on a date tonight!! this girl was BOSS, bird material, didnt take my shit, tidy & on the ball

first girl ive had a good talk with for ages, apparently her housemates(she a student) always tell her THE BOYS RULES O THE GAME


so at 1 the lights came on... i said

"come back to mine have a drink" Now you guys know me, if i wanted to fuck her i would have just said! but i liked her and wanted to leave it for a bit!

she says... "oh u want me to come back so u can fuck me, after all that crap"!!

im fumin the fact NO PART OF ME was thinkin sex !!! the fact she instantly jumped to conclusion, like i need to fuck her!!! ive got a zillion on tap!!

FUMIN THO!!! i left her in town anyway!! horrible cunt, i hate how people assums shit of you, i genuinly just enjoyed her company!!

done my head in!! bad tho... had i been tryin to fuck her FAIR PLAY!!! but i my mind i wernt fuckn her yet...


maybe im drunk i dunno... not impressed tho!!

deleted her number

HORROR

what you get for trying to be friends with a girl, they punish you for not escalating consistently. should have gone for your usual 'lets bone' attitude. To be fair to her, a guy asking a girl back to his at night for drinks on her own is not inviting her there to hang out and watch videos. ever. if you had drinks at yours and didnt fuck her she'd probably feel rejected. You fell down at C2, should have pulled out The Cube! Lol

FIXED!!

p.s. There is no reason to be fuming Phil. I think you are just drunk. When you wake up this morning, you'll realise just how chodey your post is.

Gambler would'nt have said 'come back to mine'

He would have bounced her, then done the mini date thing, kebab shop,

or 'hey lets get something to eat I know this great place' (my house)

but there again gambler is a cunt

The moral to the story is with the best intentions in the world as soon as you mention those two little words 'my place' her in built alarm system is going to trigger and in her head it will sound like a poilce siren on a saturday night.

She's not thinking yeh chillin on the sofa with a bifta good tunes and having a laugh, she's thinking picking my bra off the floor tommorrow morning, got to stop fucking strangers

Sounds to me like she thought she was higher up the pecking order than you.

Good on you though for deleting her number, least you didnt txt her saying ' did you like me' hehe

Me: Oh shut your face, I said a drink -- so how about a nice cup of shut the fuck up.

I think you got owned Phil by a bird with somthing between her ears :P

im still not impressed by it!! but fuck it!

she was interesting, u lot would have fuckin loved her, she was good at reading people... had some good view on social stuff!! and had lads PEGGED...

i think the problem was she was judgin me based on most lads which is fair play.

she actually said

"i planned before the date if you was fit but a nob, i would have fucked you an get my goodies, if it goes well... i would rather it be on a different level than a one nighter...

jesus i sound like a boy"

which is exactly my train of thought!

so anyway NEXT... i have a thursday & friday appontment

Out of interest, what do you consider to be a quality girl? What kind of things do you talk about with her?

U didn't like her that much anyway
Or
U love getting on your high horse so u can be "right" (vs her) even if it is at the expense of u actually liking something about her! If it is this one, then u could give her another shot.

Because if the *only* bit of her behavior that u didn't like was this...
..then I reckon u have overreacted. "Calm down like, calm down!!!!"

We wer talkin about liverpool to start with, and how its unlike most cities, its narcissistic & hedonistic! she said she found this in most places she has been

we spent most of the night talkin about sociology! why people act the way they do, we got onto a convo about positive perspective & NLP! she was unsure of NLP.

and loads of takin the piss out of eachother

She said she had a really god night blah blah,

I gets a text the mornin after sayin "i spoke to one of my flatmates (MALE BTW) Who explained exactly what NLP is, Well Played!!!"

I said "well played?"


HER REPLY .. MOFG this is insane

"you know you think your somethin dont you, your little system to get girls into bed, playin games like that! you can carry on doin that to get laid, but your gonna wind up old & lonely!"


First off this is WEIRD after a first date! i assume he told her about ross jeffries of somethin, i dunno!

she clearly wanted to like me, just felt lie she did so through non authentic reasons! otherwise she wouldnt have bothered textin....

weird tho!! non the less....

just text her back sayin

bit rash, lets leave it amicably, take it easy x

I would not be able to leave at this. Personally I would ring her and explain what NLP actually is and how it is something that you use in everyday life, not just to get women into bed. Also that as much as she might hates it every guy has some sort of system to try and make a girl fancy him (out of curiosity did you run some dodgy NLP script on her) and that if you had wanted to you could have purposely used an NLP script but have ethical issues about doing so (give a Ross Jefferies example). Then talk about the benefits that NLP has in self development in other areas of your life ect.