Hi guys,

I'm new to the whole PUA scene too. I'm 30 years old and live in London and generally lack the confidence to approach women cold, though I'm generally a confident person in all other fields of my life.

I came across this community as I read 'The Game' a few weeks ago and have since been soaking up any information on the internet, watching as many 'You tube' videos possible.

I also had the same question as 'Hound' as I had seen sites like 'PUA method' and wondered if the boot camps were actually worth the money etc. But by the sounds of it a 'wingman' is all that is needed and some good chat. It certainly is eye opener

im doing it for free with my boys in Luton mate...

Joe, you dont need a bootcamp....

Id take any noobie out and show them how its done, all i ask is you are prepared to go out of your comfort zone and make a dic of yourself, because thats what will happen the first 3 months you go out,

but you know what.... it gets easier, I promise, but it takes a few months, because you get desensitised to the fear and pain of rejection and then comes the most amazing 2 feelings in the world....

a. you dont give a fuck
b. you get calibrated, all the things that for 6 months youve been practicing, just happen naturally...

But heres the kicker...it wont if you sit reading internet forums of a night time...the more you go and and fuck it up, the quicker and more rewarding it will become when you do become better at it.....

If you are not prepared for a bit of emotional pain, I suggest yes you spend lots of time reading forums and wanking off to bangbros

to be fair, if i was gonna take time out coz someone actively wanted TEACHIN i would charge them about £400 for a weekend.

i certainly wouldnt do it for free

I'd happily do it for free.

But, oddly, I doubt I'd get many takers. 'PUA bootcamp - completely free weekend!'

Cos you can't solve problems if you don't spend loads of money on them. Seriously, I saw it on the tellybox lots.

Personally I'd avoid BC's.

Remove that approach anxiety ditch that fucker quickly and heres the best bit you don't need 3 months to get good if you start tomorrow.

set yourself a 8 week plan

Week 1
Starting WEDNESDAY morning on your way to work approach 2 - 3 women a day ask for anything the time, where burger king is, this is no big deal, by next week you should be finding the most beutfiful women in the street and asking directions or whatever.

If you're still alive we'll talk about stage two next week good luck

I am a newbie and had the same question about bootcamps. I don't begrudge paying money to people who have something useful to teach that could save me the time of trying to work it out for myself. Also I have mega approach anxiety. I thought that if I spent that amount of money, together with the moral support of having peers around me in the same boat it would force me to make some approaches and I would have made a start that I could build on. Is there any logic to my thinking or am on the wrong track?

How do I know that you won't be straight off to the bookies the second my five hundred lands on your doormat? Seriously though I appreciate your advice.

spend 500 on 4-5 really nice escorts/hookers

Bootcamps can be good value for money, just make sure you go with someone that is going to teach you something.

There is a bit of an anti pua sentinment on this forum, but if you are utterly new a bootcamp can give you a head start. But there is no magic pill, it all takes time and practice with or without a bootcamp.