wer do i begin. it feels like my options are all dead and i cant be a pua because of it. i just dont find enuff chances. i go uni 2 times a week (dont ask) i dont live on campus so i commute which kills my uni social life. I also find it very hard to go out specifically for daygame as it increases AA. but my freinds that are a year yunger go to college but meet more girls. while im stuck. my social life is non existant my naturals freiinds are good but i no i can be better easily but it feels like a catch 22 what do i do ????

what about your social network at uni? surely you have time between lectures to hang out with friends/expand your social network? and what about weekends? to practice meeting women you don't need to be out every night.

Start crashing on people's floors on campus. I used to do that all the time when at uni so could go out quite a bit.

Start being more SOCIAL then everything else will improve for you.

Let me give you some advice you need to cultivate your mind read orwell and dh laurence and you will learn more from them then your father your mother as these guys are so imsprational to me or pua .

Also get fit and a good diet will improve your confidence and please for fucks sake man up dont be a pussy and waste your life being shy .

You could have a great life if your man enough! .I spent the afternoon fucking man and i feel great nothing beats a sexy woman .

As reading leads to great coversation and learn comedy learn stories you have to lead the coversation with a woman make her laugh and smile .Can you lead a conversation ?

I can and dont be mr fucking boring as she will regect you im being genrous as your young i hope you take my advice be a man.

copy what ur mates are doin... whether it feels natural or not... then eventually, u will become it

if u cant do that.... stop cryin

you guys dont get it ther not better than me because they hav more game its jus because the place they are at exposes them to more and kowalski you got it wong man i am not the catch 22

Funny that because I do actually get it. I didn't live on campus either when I went to uni in Manchester, but yet I made the effort to put myself out there and went out at least 2 or 3 nights a week all because I stayed at different mate's houses. You've gotta push yourself. It's no use saying Day Game gives you more AA. Work on it.

Does your Uni have a student union bar or places where everyone goes. Go to them! Get to know people by joining a group or sports team or something. I went to Uni of Wolverhampton and even they seemed to have a team or group for countless sports and hobbies.

There is PUA stuff dedicated to college game, maybe someone on here can point you in the right direction for that?

Quit backwards rationalising why you have a poor social life and do something about it. You can do stuff outside of uni as well. You are only there 2 days a week so you have plenty of time on your hands.

The rabbit hole is Alice's vagina.

Hey bro,I know partly the dilema you have as I go to uni too.Dude im not gonna tell you aloadf shit about being a man,because frankly advise like that
from some random dude on a forum dosent do much.I can tell you however that the way you see your situation is from your perspective,no 1 elses.You make the choice to talk to people,not the situation.There is no such thing as a perfect situation.From my personal experience at uni the following simple things has secured me a nice expansive social circle.


1:Smile,It dosent matter how juskeep a cheeky grin on while your on campus,you will get the odd chuckle from wanna be Alphamales but beside that people react really well to it.

2:Takeout those fucking earphones,might not be an issue for you but I always had this need to listen to tunes while I walked anywhere.From seeing
other people do it I have found it to be somewhat anti-social,IMO.

3:Have something that defines you,for me its workingout and yoga,I often make an effort to talk the guys that often eat lunch alone(u know the type)and I always ask them-"what u into buddy?".The answer always comes back-"you know,hanging out","I play a bit of football", ect.

4:TALK TO EVERY 1,this little rule has helped more than anything,it was allso one of the hardest for me to get into doing daily.Tescos,Bus stop,Elevator,Street,Class,Ques,Bank,Post Office,Gym,Sauna,Clothes store,News stands,video store,mac donalds ect.By talking to the fucking weirdos I meet in all these places,Opening colleage girls in a cafe is prettyeasy