Jaz when I was reading that and saw the "chivalry dead" bit I thought you were going to follow it up with "and women killed it"

"Chivalry is dead and women killed it" I believe thats a quote from some comedian although their name escapes me at this moment in time.

I think what is important to take from Jaz's post and others is that chivalry is fine, if you are like that to your mates and everyone, if you change who you are to try "impress" a hot girl, you are coming from a place of needy AFC territory.

I tend to do things like hold the door for people etc, but I do it to anyone. So it never should come across as needy. If anyone got a problem with that, thats their loss not mine.

Ok cool.....so you wouldnt be opening a car door for them!?

i open a door for girls and say... GO ON... i dont expect a thank you i expect them to do as they are told

Hahahaha....! And where's Retro and Simply David.

So do I, but not at restaurants.

^ chivalry at its best

Why not?

Because she might not put out

Hahahahaha!

Ok, I know this is going to sound radical and completely crazy - but what if having a meal with her and enjoying her company was satisfying enough?

Well you have that either way, so feel free to pay.