I think what is important to take from Jaz's post and others is that chivalry is fine, if you are like that to your mates and everyone, if you change who you are to try "impress" a hot girl, you are coming from a place of needy AFC territory.

I tend to do things like hold the door for people etc, but I do it to anyone. So it never should come across as needy. If anyone got a problem with that, thats their loss not mine.