So if I say to a girl, for example, you have man hands, just for a laugh, and I want to fuck her, regardless of her man hands, but I know that i don't need to lower her value to do so, is that a neg in the context that you are talking about?

Well, I suppose as the word gets used quite frequently, I'm pretty sure that not everyone that uses it is referring to the type of neg that mystery was on about. I dunno it just seems to me that whenever the word comes up there seems to be a royal slating match and some form of public execution, which is actually always fun to read but I sometimes get the feeling that people have particularly strong feelings towards a certain standpoint, and I guess i'm just curious as to what motivates that.

i think the whole "technical jargon" thing is geeky as fuck when it comes to picking up women and one of the first things u gotta stop being is GEEKY

You should put that in your sig. Some proper good advice there mate.