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Default Plan of action needed! - 26-02-2009, 06:28 PM

Hi Guys,

Wonder if you can help me. well i know you can, stupid question really!

Anyway, I've been reading LOTS of books on Game and LOTS of DVD's and i'm getting a bit screwed up as i have aswell several diffent points of contact with women.

Just to give you some idea what i'm on about...

So i've read:

The Game - Style
The Mystery Method - Mystery
How to Talk to Anyone, Undercover Sex Signals - Both by Leil Lowndes
Confidence in just seven days - Ros Taylor
How to succeed with women - Ron Louis and david Copeland
Super Flirt - Tracey Cox

I'm part way though reading:
Rules of the game - Style (on the day 1)
Introducing NLP - Joseph o'connor & John Seymour
How to Pull girls - Julia Bruni
i'm skip reading a book on palm reading one on Coin Magic

Yet to read but own:
How to win friends and influence People - Dale Carnegie
The Art of Seduction - Robert Green
That book by Gambler

On the DVD front i've watched:
Advanced Dating and meeting women in bars and clubs - Both David D ones
Style Anialation Method - Style
Flawless Natural - RSD (the aussie guy)
An RSD one with Tyler


So part 1 of this post:

I've only just got so much time outside work, which of the above would you recommend spending most of my time reading / watching from, as my minds getting fooked at this point in time.


Part 2 of this Post:

I've got four channels to meet women as i see it and at the moment balacing all four is more of a mind fuck than reading all this stuff as they all take differnet chunks from different parts of books or books.

1) Day game. Never approach a women during the day other than asking for directions and there was this really cute girl in Tesco today i wish i'd of had the skills to approach her, so i definatly need a LOT of work on this part of my Game

2) Night Game. Lacking a little confidence but know solid canned openers, time constraint and can roll into DHV, but just lack field time and need some confidence boosting.

3) Online Game. Certinally my biggest step forward as i've had some Day 1's out of it and feel i have some killer stuff to talk about. However it's not a constant flow and i'm only getting about one date a month out of it.

4) Social Circle Game. One of the books recomends joining clubs to meet women. One of the things i do is a Dance class where there lots of hot women. I'm good at chatting with them and doing the cocky funny stuff (like telling them off when they lead or something goes wrong), but i'm not sure on the building attraction phase as i've been mainly concentration on the night game memorising openers.

So i've very concious that i might be trying to run before i can even walk and my energy is split over lots of stuff rather than following a nice logical simple path. So what do you think i should work on as one main thing and either stop all together or just put a lot less effort into the other areas.


Thanks for reading a complete load of waffle, but i'd love your input guys.

Take it easy

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Default 26-02-2009, 06:42 PM

Well it sounds like your really cramming the knowledge in there . You remind me of me when i first started , i wanted as much knowledge as possible and watched everythign i could get and read as much as possible . But what tends to happen is you spread yourself alittle thin and you have all these different bits of knowledge floating around and when you do try to game your pulled in different directions .

If i would suggest anything it would be ... Get out there and start finding your own style . Definatly keep researching and getting info but relax and let what you know work with your own sort of game . If you like one certain area and do well with it , work towards that . There are so many different methods and paths in this little world of pua that your bound to find bits that you like and that you don't . The main thing is , get into that field and do !

I promise you when you rack up time in the field you'll become more comfortable with all this info your cramming in and find your groove .

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Default 26-02-2009, 11:22 PM

Totally, get in the field.

Your strategy sounds tight but you won't recall the knowledge until you have experiences to peg it to.

Here's a fun learning metaphor that you might find useful if you've seen the trials out of Indies Last Crusade. Your kneeling penitence to improve leads you to this community, your discipline in the accumulation of knowledge guides you past the pit falls of others, but it is your courage to make the leap of faith in to the abyss of the field that reveals the solid ground that was there all along, leading you to the grail of a life time supply of hot poon.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-c8_OFwZoY&fmt=18

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Default 27-02-2009, 12:45 AM

I say slow down a little. You've read a lot already. Take some time to assimilate everything and, most importantly, practice, practice, practice. That's the only way you'll ever get really good is to practice stuff.
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Default 27-02-2009, 07:35 AM

There was a guy was walking along the street in midtown manhattan he had a guitar strapped to his back and he stopped at a really nice bar that had live music blasting out the door.

He steps inside and asks the barkeep "Hey do you know how to get to Carnegie Hall?"

"Yeah" replies the bartender "Practice, Practice, Practice!"

Put down the books and go get your face slapped a few times...
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Default 27-02-2009, 02:13 PM

Thanks for the input guys, greatly appreciated.

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Default 27-02-2009, 02:24 PM

How do you eat an elephant?














One bite at a time.
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Default 27-02-2009, 02:59 PM

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With a little help from your friends


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Either way I wannt start in the middle I dont think I could start at the arse or nose end!!
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Either way I wannt start in the middle I dont think I could start at the arse or nose end!!
I don't think that much fat would be good for my diet.
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