So I have signed up with this dating site. I have found irt relatively easy to get dates through there, but there is this one girl who i kept sending messeges to while I was away on holiday for a month and was pretty excited to being able to meet her now that im back.'

So tried to set up a date with her. Thought id be original, so i called up a hypnotherapist in her hometown and made an appointment for myself to stop smoking. thought it would give me a original reason for being intown and asking her out, as wel as a potential chance to actually quit smoking (2days now still smoke free).

It seemed like a good move, got some fun banter going. but she said that she had already made plans with friends that night and couldnt meet up with me.
Now this girl works almost 24/7 btw so Im a bit worried when there will ever be time.

issue one: Should I exspect this girl to drop her stuff with her friends and meet me? I want to be high value to this girl. And for the amount of time i have put into this i really want to start seeing some results haha

Issue two:
So Im getting the idea this girl is playing hard to get and is negging me a little bit now. She sends me this text when the movie is done syaing"sorry but i never think a date with you will ever live up to this movie :P"

Im not ino this stuff i just the date not this text messege banter. How do i respond to this.. standard stuff like: oh well ill have to prove the opposite
Or just neg her for giving me a hard time.

What would you do?

Sounds like she's interested in you bro. Do the standard stuff and get her out.

I had an issue with this girl I was dating, she was constantly busy with other commitments. In the end due to frustrations I ended it. Seeing someone once a week/ 2 weeks did not allow anything to progress. Consider this.

Get more girls

I don't need to read your post but it's clearly about ONE girl. To post on a forum for advice on ONE girl smacks of over-investment on your part.

Therefore what smileyK said.

SmileyK, aka MacLovin, makes a good point. Easier said than done but very true. I'm in the process of building a nice lineup right now. Even though, I'm in college and the number of options seems overwhelming is not as easy as it looks.

Or maybe I just don't have the skills, yet. Maybe both. What would you guys recommend is a good mindset/frame to have to approach girls on a college campus not necessarily to "pick them up" but to just get their numbers and chat them up?

Drop this girl immediately. She just wants an orbiter.

Yes and you should expect her to rearrange her stuff with her friends to meet you. Period.

You have over invested massively. Trying to get her to drop all her commitments because of you would look petty and desperate.

The way I see 'high value' is that you are giving her the gift of being with you. You are awesome and if she won't invest in you then that's her loss.

Personally, I wouldn't want a girl who would drop everything for me as it reeks of desperation. On the other hand, a girl that can't even give me the time of day isn't one I'd want to be with either.

Finally, I personally made the mistake of over investing in a girl. Just recently, I stopped a girl, took her to an art gallery and had a coffee with her. I also sent her a text and gave her a missed call.

Whilst that didn't put me at a huge loss, that's an enormous amount of time to spend with a girl you've only just met. It would annoy me if she didn't text back, but I'll get over it.