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What would you do with 3 months paid holiday? -
08-01-2014, 10:02 PM
It's possible I could be allowed to take 3 months paid holiday from work. I just need to give 3 months notice of when I want to do it and get approval from my manager (shouldn't be a major issue). I've been putting this off for many years (it's a rolling offer, a sabbatical that is part of my work contract) because I've been too scared to be away from work that long (always available that's me).
I've not applied for it yet but I've wondered what I could do. Originally I thought of going to New Zealand on a grand tour. But it's expensive and I'm wondering if it would be better just renting in London for 3 months and concentrating on improving my day / night game. I would have my private place (which I don't have at the moment) and be close to the hub of social activity. I'm worried I wouldn't have the motivation to keep going or I'd lose the plot somehow. I could maybe get a casual job to keep me busy (e.g. working in a bar) and get some extra cash. I've been brainstorming... maybe I should go to the states and do a boot camp, meet Owen or Julian. But that seems like a holiday. I want to do something life-changing. But I realise I'll need to challenge myself. I don't fancy swimming the channel or some shit like that. It seems like a crazy life changing idea. It might not work out the way I'm imagining. I'm kind of stuck in a quandary about what to do. But just not doing anything when the opportunity is there seems against my whole self-improvement ethos at the moment. If you had this opportunity...3 months fully paid holiday from work, and some money (not a huge amount though) and your main aim at this point in your life was to improve your game and get better with women what do you think you would do?     
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08-01-2014, 10:24 PM
Do this:
The World's Most Dangerous Trail on Mr. Huashan Leads to a Teahouse Or go travelling. Or make a film (if I had enough money :P). Then you just have to make sure you go out and meet enough women in general whilst out doing this shit. Spending three months holiday on just game would be stupid. Have fun.
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08-01-2014, 10:30 PM
Yeah I thought 3 months on game would probably not be a great idea. It seems doomed to failure as I'd end up right in my head after a week. But that's why I thought getting a job that is a total contrast to my normal job (being an engineer chode type chap) would offset that (like working in a busy city centre bar) and teach me a lot.
Danger in and of itself would help in the short term but I imagine walking for hours behind some fat assed tourists. There needs to be plenty of chicks involved in this venture.
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08-01-2014, 10:31 PM
Go backpacking
It's really cheap The girls are squally pretty game You'll be put in situations where you don't know anybody and you'll have to make friends. You can see lots of different places and again the other backpacking girls are really game
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08-01-2014, 10:32 PM
Though making a movie does sound interesting... a skin flick? nope but something that pushes my leadership skills and creativity. I'll think more on that. Chicks love movies don't they?
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08-01-2014, 10:34 PM
I read the book "the beach". The thai trail or whatever it's called could be interesting.
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08-01-2014, 10:40 PM
Yeah, I love travelling and meeting new people. There's a hostel network around the world and you can get private rooms if you pay a bit extra (hopefully I'd be needing some private space for hooking up). Renting B&B / rooms and hotels would drain the finances very quickly I think. There would be no point spending everything on just staying somewhere...alone.
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08-01-2014, 10:51 PM
The London idea seems appealing because it would take the least planning. It would still be challenging. 3 months to pull and get laid totally under my own efforts. I could do a London boot camp at the start to get me kicked off. And there's a few wings I know in London from the forum.
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08-01-2014, 11:12 PM
I'd buy a European train ticket £100-200 or so, which allows you to travel all over Europe for 30 days, excluding UK travel.
Fuck fitting your life around girls, go out, have an adventure; you'd meet girls along the way. Girls are everywhere. Go to a place that interests you, you'd meet girls on the train and in new cities etc.. you know that from experience dude. Thats exactly what I'd do.
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08-01-2014, 11:25 PM
Yeah, focussing on girls for a holiday, we know what that would do. It show's a lot of needyness and would put them off (even the ones that might have been up for it if they'd just bumped into you would be repelled). It could end up like bullshit.
It needs to be a holiday where I'm on my path and picking up girls 'just happens' along the route.
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