Thanks for the advice tophat a lot of it rings true to me.

thanks for turning me to this thread top-hat
i was helpful especially the part on 'how to start'

Some really great advice lads. Just a shame i couldn't find that 'Sex God Method' book on British Amazon. The one from the US is over $150... Had to pirate it down which i dont have a problem when looking for music, movies or games. But I prefer to pay for educational books just not that amount... Kinda weird ain't it?
Might be the wrong place to ask, but are there any other books you'd recommend? Recently found an addiction for personal-development, and could really use some good material. Thanks

-Enemy

Addiction to personal development or personal development books?

I'll deffo have a look into it!

Personal development, whatever means. Gym 6-7 times a week, studying German, read a chapter each from 3 different books daily and experimenting on approaches when going out.

I've been using Duolingo to learn German for a month or two now, just mainly whilst I'm on the tram, its pretty damn good to be fair.

Aber meine Deutsch ist noch nicht sehr gut.

I didn't & I've been involved with quite a few different women since I joined.

Even now I wouldn't settle for less than what I'm looking for. The most recent girl I was involved with from January to April is a great girl - good looking, fun, young (22), drove & had her own car, had a job & was independent, didn't use drugs, expressed her adoration for me by cooking for me, taking me out for dinner regularly (obviously I reciprocated), driving me to & from boxing training etc etc, but none of it was in a needy way. Great blow jobs too.

She wanted me all to herself though & I couldn't promise her that. So I had to let her go. She got a little hurt but I know I did the right thing for her best interests before she got any more involved & had her heart broke.

She is a great girl but I knew there was something missing for me.

Aside from her being a bit hurt, I left her better than I found her - she was inspired by my motivation, positivity & changes I made to my life & expressed interest in starting a degree, which I continued to encourage until she went ahead & done it. So she's began a whole new chapter that she wouldn't have if she hadn't met me, her words not mine.

I'm not disregarding the idea of a serious girlfriend in fact I'm open to possibility. If & when I meet a girl who's perfect for me (ok lets not get all "but no-ones perfect") I'll be happy to become exclusive with that girl.

Bollocks, Barney Stinson does not own only "a few suits"