I've got date, but no serious commitment. She had hers as looking for relationship.

She's updated her profile description to read: "NOT looking for hot, adventurous, or fun loving guy . If that's all you got, not my type"

Bit of a weirdo that one I think.

You're fine then

This attitude gives me the impression she has 200 guys asking her the same question and she is hooked on the short ego hit of batting off the guys. I wonder if she even accepts any of her date requests, or just sits there messaging.

I’m gonna start dabbling in online dating again, I was terrible at it before, may as well see if things have changed.

Reply with a succinct and astute reply about her issues in life.

No I didn't! I sent 40,000 messages over ten years! Divide 40,000 by 3,650! That works out at only a few messages sent each day! I didn't send messages out every single day though. Some days I would send out 100 messages or more and other days I would send out none, instead keep checking for replies. And other days I would only send out about 40 messages. Also you can send out a lot of messages very quickly using cut and paste. I also do go out a lot and talk to women, almost every single day in fact!

I think it would be more beneficial to talk about this then instead. How is this part of your life, do you have similar issues?

You sure about these figures? Sending 40-100 messages per day would be pretty time consuming even with a copy/paste. I'm no online dating expert but if your just sending the same standard message to al the woman you wil have more than likely a very low response rate. Your messages should be personal - related to their profiles in some way.

Also - I take it you had no standard whatsoever and just messaged every single woman's profile you could find?

I said that I did not send that many messages every day! I said some days I would not send out any messages at all, but instead just check the site for replies. By the way using cut and paste it was very quick because I used the same basic message for several years. I rarely wrote a new one. I spent far more time in internet chatrooms and on internet forums than actually messaging women on dating sites. I think the total time I spend online was about 2 to 3 hours a day, but that was usually early in the morning and late in the evenings outside of sarging time. I do day game usually from around 11am to about 7pm. Not constantly but for a couple of hours stint at a time then take a break to get something to eat etc. Working part time selling the Big Issue also helps as I can work when I want which is usually about 7:30am to 11am Monday to Friday. That gives me afternoons free.

Again, I'm no online dating expert, but along with your online dating profile which has also been criticised, I think this could be a big reason as to why you didn't do very well.

What is/was your basic message?

Tip - If something doesn't work tons of times then what the fuck is the point of not changing it or better still, just making your message intergrate with things they've said on their profile... No brainer.

I think you're the 1 with the thick head playing a stupid numbers game whilst never changing the message. Your attitude sucks.