all of those websites are free to join but you have to pay to send messages, i don't think it's worth paying when your unsure if the profiles are genuine.
People should know that on most dating websites men outnumber women by between 2 to 1 and 4 to 1 so most men do not have much chance on dating sites. I found that out many years ago when I started using them. I gave up on them in the end.
Pointless writing a post out for this so I'll quote you my post from the PoF thread you made the same comments on.
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Originally Posted by Barney Stinson
Stonecastle, yes men outnumber women on dating site but that in itself isn't a disadvantage. You're making it so by, for some reason thinking that these other men are better than you, therefore effecting your attitude which will have a negative effect not only on your profile but on your messages too. Resulting in you only having about 5 dates from 10 year usage.
Attitude is key. If you come across and negative or boring straight away then what is that going to portray? Obvious really isn't it.