It's happened to me on several occasions. Not on same night.

URL events.

Lol. I just try my best. But my best needs improving a load. But life is designed to constantly challenge us to improve in one way or another.

Haha, that's a challenge for you Sha, I would literally pay you to do that tomorrow night!

I'm in disbelief that a single interaction with a girl in a pub caused her to slap you, there must have been an underlying cause or you approached her with your pants down, drunk and swore violently at her. I'm sure everybody here can agree that even in the most extreme circumstances I've never had anything that bad happen, even with the unstable ones.

You're making excuses mate, the only person here your conning is yourself, if you're genuine about beginning this learning process you have to have the effort and persistence to stick with it. Pull your head out of your arse and stop trying to give yourself reasons not to improve on yourself.

Identify the next step you need to make, then make it, and so forth, just make progress and stick to it.

I was just thinking it might make a good opener: "excuse me, what do I have to do to make you slap me?"

Video it and make £250 on You've Been Framed

Alright chill out, its his first day on here.

I would do that as an opener though. Maybe in a place i dont mind being banned.

Ok... no i did not approach in any lewd manner... drunk, pants down or otherwise. However they had been approached by many others whilst i was at those pubs and i believe that may have been a factor in their reactions... purely speculation.

Also on the point of improving somehow i managed to get a barmaid at a local pub to agree to go for a drink with me... don't know how i managed it but i did... somehow. Still shocked.

On the topic of being slapped, exactly how many times would you say, was this in the same place or on the same night?

Like D!ce says, i really don't believe that women would just do that off the bat. Granted if they have been getting bad atentio or are really drunk its believable. Before this is happening to you, you must be really drunk, acting like a dick or outright proposing them for sex. I'm the least experienced guy with women on here - less experienced than yourself and thats never happened to me although granted I've had a few drinks thrown over me but I deserved it.

Well done with the Bar maid. What happened, how exactly did you do it?