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[foxster]

while i'm at home and not doing much, i think i might as well do some online sarging to pass the time.

however, need some tips on best way to get onto convo thats going to build attraction when the initial response from her is nothing to work with.

i.e. one replied with thanks for taking the time to say hi , how are you?

how would you reply to move to a more interesting, attraction building convo? or should i keep to this initial boring chat first to build comfort?

[William T. Riker]

Im going to let you into a little secret:

Right sign up on a site called POF (PLENTY OF FISH) its totally free dating site, no cost what so ever.
Pics will help:
Pics that will get best responses are ones which DEMONTRATE VALUE, GOOD BODY LANGUAGE, and ofcaurse show your PRE SELECTED BY WOMAN.
Try putting a picture of you and your mum together (Becouse its instinctive a woman will think if he looks after his mum he will look after me)


Profile Example

“If your old boyfriend thinks a 7 course meal is a bucket of chicken and a six-pack of beers or if he thinks sexual foreplay is half an hour of begging and then slipping off your shoes or if your halloween pumpkin has more teeth than your last date, you need to be with a modern day man.
Im as comfortable in a croud making jokes as i am being alone with my girl having stimulating conversations. I colour outside the lines, run with scissors because im passionate and have a healthy appetite for life. Some like brown bread and some like white, i am the best of both. Im not all about material things but i am about making YOU the centre of attention.
When you e-mail me you might get to know my bad boy and good boy thoughts, as long as you have other qualities. Make no mistakes here, i am not looking for cyber-sex or online fantasy, i am here to enjoy your company online and then move this to phone conversation with a view to meeting up in person.
If your not interested in meeting in person please don’t message me, life is too short. For those of you with a similar aim i look forward to having interesting experiences with you, after all thats what life is about...
Right?
See You Soon . . . .

COPY AND PASTE THIS IF YOU WISH

Ok So you now want openners with guarenteed response right well ill share the ones i use with you.


Openners:
"PUT UP A TITLE WHICH WILL GRAB HER ATTENTION"
THEN SAY:

"Hi," I'm taking a survey on bad lines. Which one do you think is the worst.

"1. `Come here often, sugar pants?'

"2. `Hey, baby. Can we go out in the cold and hug?'

"3. `Hi. I'm taking a survey on bad lines.'"

GUARENTEED TO GET A RESPONE
afterwards you could say many things, either qualify or disqualify,

"Well you see before i get to know a girl, she at least has to demonstrate some sense of humour, Congratulations! youve passed!"


Openner 2:
(Direct)
I don't mean to interrupt you while you are fishing the net, but I just wanted you to know that I think you're one of the most attractive women I've ever seen, and I'm really glad I worked up the courage to introduce myself to you

This is sincere and genuine, and will get a reply, afterwards use your charm and skills, remember these are only openners they dont get you laid, they put you at the back of the que, and your job then is to wiggle your way to the front.


Hope it helps

Love Will.

[nova]

Originally Posted by foxster

while i'm at home and not doing much, i think i might as well do some online sarging to pass the time.

I've spent way too many wasted hours staring at computer screens in the past with little return to be able to recommend any type of online strategy to you.

However I would suggest if you are attempting to pass the time, use it and get out on the streets, in the supermarket, etc. and chat to real girls there. It pains me to see a guy I know at work wasting hours, days and weeks looking at girls on a monitor.

[picard]

Originally Posted by nova

However I would suggest if you are attempting to pass the time, use it and get out on the streets, in the supermarket, etc. and chat to real girls there. It pains me to see a guy I know at work wasting hours, days and weeks looking at girls on a monitor.

could not agree more.

Online gaming is like 'simulation' to me... good fun, not a bad warm-up, flex a few lines etc...


but the REAL THING is where the glory is!

Picard.

[Hustler25]

Gotta say commander Riker, I'm not too taken by your online profile. To be honest I felt like I was cringing abit as I was reading it. Just comes across abit too eager to impress, as if you have dopped in too many 'sound-bites' that you know will impress a women. By denouncing other 'assumed' past boyfriends and painting yourself in a better light is a low-value thing to do in itself, I would drop that first opening sentance altogether. I would just make your profile sound more authentic and true to who you are. Seriously, don't be afraid to describe how you see yourself not how you 'ideally' wish to be viewed by others.

As I began reading your first opener, I thought 'oh boy, that survey tactic is lame' but then further reading it was only joke. That's actually quite good, I like that. Though I wouldn't guarantee it generates a respone 100% of the time. With the plethora of males vying for a single girls attention online you'll have more success with that opener whilst face to face with a girl with you being the only guy stood right there in front of her.

As for your 'direct' opener, come on mate. Re-read that, how beta does that sound?? 'I don't mean to interupt...' 'I'm glad I worked up the courage...' So are you usually insecure and unconfident when introducing yourself to women is what that says. I don't mean to have a go at you I hope this is constructive but recently I approached a girl in a bar with an opener I thought was 'direct' only to recieve a verbal slam-down from Jaz telling me it wasn't direct enough...and I'm very glad he taught me that lesson.

[jj smooth]

I was on plenty of fish i didn't like it, dont get me wrong i had lots of girls asking me about my photos but it gets boring after a while. If you want 2 date online then i suggest putting 4-5 pics on there, one should be a work photo, another of you doing some sort of sport, one of you in a social enviroment and another of you with your family or a family member, thats all you need and just put the basics on yourself so they want to find out more about you, for EG: Your name, age, town, what your looking for, proffession, interest ETC. ETC. Good luck with your browsing friend.

[picard]

yes, to be fair on the direct opener topic...

...never apologize to interrupt someone...

never be apologetic, as far as they are concerned your going about your daily/nightly life, just makign conversation, no need to apologize.

and 'interrupting'. your never interrupting mate, your just contributing to what happens in their night!

Make It So!

Picard.

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Originally Posted by foxster

while i'm at home and not doing much, i think i might as well do some online sarging to pass the time.

however, need some tips on best way to get onto convo thats going to build attraction when the initial response from her is nothing to work with.

i.e. one replied with thanks for taking the time to say hi , how are you?

how would you reply to move to a more interesting, attraction building convo? or should i keep to this initial boring chat first to build comfort?

There are many ways to get a conversation going. I attribute my success to being genuine and original. Easier said than done, right? Here are some quick tips.


Say you come across a profile: a gorgeous brunette, with pretty hazel eyes, a nice rack, a tight ass, etc. etc. etc. Okay you ALREADY KNOW she has a gang-full of guys who've already messaged her with, "you're so gorgeous" comments. Do not compliment her on her physical features...at least not without "bringing her down to earth." I do not care if she is wearing a thong...don't risk being lumped in with all the other suckers who compliment her online.

You must be SITUATIONAL and get into HER MIND. Say for instance she's holding a dog. You can write "Those eyes are GORGEOUS...and LOVE the hair...how old is your dog? ;-) I'm kidding..how are you today?" That will completely take her aback. Or, for example make a comment about the background of her picture. If her room is messy, tell her to clean up her room, in a playful way. Original and genuine. Congrats...you will quickly break into her reality.

Doing this is original, as most guys immediately compliment or proposition her for sex. You, on the other hand must show that you are at least EQUAL if not above her...."DHV" as you might call it.

Here is a video I made to promote my first book. Watch the model interview in the middle and see what kind of notes she gets and how she REALLY feels:

YouTube - From MySpace To My Place Model Interview - Getting Girls from MySpace and Facebook

[jj smooth]

you actially wrote that book, wow fair play to you mate good job.

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Originally Posted by jj smooth

you actially wrote that book, wow fair play to you mate good job.

Thanks dude!