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Default How do you escape friendzone? - 06-07-2013, 09:15 PM

Will make it short and to the point

-Meet girl
-Mutual attraction
-Sleept together a few times, until she said she wants more
-Told her I really like her but im not ready to start something serious because of my recent break up ( well not so recent but yeah )
-Didn't see each other for a month
-Started contacts again and seeing her again, she said she likes me as a person and wants to be friends
-Keep seeing her, she sms me often (i reply alot too, act too available, not sure why but my mistake I realize it now)
-Start liking her more and more... so now i want more
-Hint I might like her more than a friend ( not in a way that she would know for sure ) and she said that I hope I understand we are just friends, she likes me but isn't attracted to me anymore like before ( so we have comfort, trust but lack of the attraction aka sexual tension at this point )

Whats my best options at this point to break out of the friendzone?
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Default 06-07-2013, 10:46 PM

U Cant. Move on.


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Default 07-07-2013, 01:44 AM

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U Cant. Move on.
Why even bother replying if you do not offer any substance apart from "u can't".
I opened this topic to get feedback from people on what the best way would be in order to achieve my goal, even if its very hard to achieve.
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Default 07-07-2013, 02:20 AM

Buy her flowers, obsess over her and listen to her guy problems.


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Default 07-07-2013, 10:11 AM

I thought this forum would be helpful but obviously I was wrong.
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Default 07-07-2013, 10:34 AM

Move on. That is the answer.

There is another option though. . .


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Default 07-07-2013, 12:44 PM

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Move on. That is the answer.

There is another option though. . .
Theres alot of articles about how to handle the friendzone, so why would there be no options apart from moving on?
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Default 07-07-2013, 12:56 PM

What do they say?


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Default 07-07-2013, 02:00 PM

Every scenario is different, in this case you've already had the moment where it could have progressed more from the 'friendzone'. There is always the possibility of getting out of it again, but its going to be really tough and not really beneficial to your progress as a person. The best and most beneficial solution here is as it has been stated to move on, you need to be able to say to yourself that this route isn't going to work and find gratification elsewhere. I'm not saying its easy, I still struggle with it myself but as an observer it is actually easier said than done. But it doesn't stop it being right.


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Default 07-07-2013, 02:26 PM

Dice has VIP tickets to the friend-zone.


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