HOw many of these articles do you need to 'subscribe' to?

the answer is. if you are in the friend zone and trying to move out of it... ur already a loser in ur own head. Getting women needs to come from a place of emotional stability with no need for a specific outcome.

If your aim is to make things happen and get the girl, it wont happen, coz u will spend hours watching the clock waiting for the precise time for the perfect phone call.... 7 days will seem like a lifetime, whilst that same week will pass her by like a raindrop...

making ur whole aim in life about a girl for any period of time is bad for ur health and self esteem.

SO MOVE ON!

Get more girls.

I have quite a few options open, i just dont like them as much.

Well get different options then

Most of these articles you see are affiliate marketers or poeple who are pushing their own products. Their advice isn't impartial. Thy're basically there to tell you what to hear so they can eventually get you to buy their shit. What you're getting here is impartial advice from experienced people. We've seen this kind of problem a lot of times, and had similar situations ourselves.

The simple fact is that regardless of whatever daft technique or set of ideas you read in an article somewhere and try to use, you're still coming at from the wrong perspective. You're the needy one right now trying to get something out of her that it sounds like she can take or leave, and no matter what you do she'll be able to tell. You'll give it off very subtly in the way you behave. Girls can smell that shit and they have no damn interest in it.

So you really have two options:

1. Man up and take control of the situation. Realise she's nothing that special, go out, find new girls, live your life and have fun. You'll be a lot happier and more attractive to women that way. Then if she wants more again sometime great, if she doesnt then whatever. Plenty more where that came from.

2. Stay at home listening to RnB ballads of the 80s, browsing through the internet looking at articles written by charlatans on how to convince this girl to fuck you some more. This one will make you much less happy, get you laid a lot less and cost you a bit more dignity.


You're in too close right now to realise there's a ton of better girls out there you can get. Don't be a mug over some girl mate. Good luck.

great post, you really opened my eyes, thank you.

Where are these articles Bbboy? I want to see what they say.

Thats the first time ever on this forum i've seen good advice taken.... and just ....

... well basically just accepted.

Kudos.

Glad to help mate, makes it worth doing.

well theres alot, just google "how to get out of a friendzone"