Ok First thing i wanna do is i wanna clear up that this isnt a post aimed at hate, or anything malicious. THis is just my opinion. If you choose to listen to what i say, u may learn somethin new. Before you dismiss my advice ...

To give you my background, i train sales staff, as of AUG first will be working as sales director and training for a new company, so as far as social interactions go... i get it.

Also, i always get the women i want... granted i've been told to fuck off a number of times... but ive always done well with women... long before i met PUA.


How to stop a woman who is trailing you in the mall and get her interested in talking to you! - YouTube

This video. What do you think is the difference here, between what you have just done... and what a SKY salesman does ever day at a shopping centre??

Nothin... there is no difference, well there is one... he is selling sky, you just sold 'FREINDSHIP' which you clearly said at the end ...

"Whats wrong with making a new friend for facebook" excellent... if thats what u want to happen. I think your idea is to get her friendship.. and work on fucking her from there...right???

Well... this is what is conventionally known as 'The Friend Zone' Its not a good place to be.

So, Lets say Ok, im out and about.. why not change your product you are selling from friendship (which is blatantly an easy sell) and change it to somethin u actually want. SEX

so instead of saying "look lets be friends on facebook blah blah

You can say, "let me take you on a date, if it works then cool, whats wrong with that??? maybe if your luck you will get laid by date 3"

she will either laff at u or with u... but so what

Yes, you will close on less numbers, but 1 yes to a date is better than 10 new mates on facebook.

Its good that ur confident enough to talk to girls now, u seem REALLY confident with it... but what you are peddaling is beneath you now.

Start selling what u actually want to sell... your sexual nature as a male.

Again, please take it as it was meant, genuine advice from someone who sexualises every encounter in life,and it works... i could genuinly offer sex to most girls i know and they would just be like "thats typical of you" now whether it would happen?? in most cases i could push it to happen but its like this.


You meet a geek, and he becomes cool... he is always a geek to you.

You need to make urself a sexual creature from the first meeting, otherwise later when u start trying to bring it into the mix... ur just the creepy guy whos started getting weird.

Ayways.... might do a seminar later this year for free if everyone fancys chipping in for a hall. i think id have everyone gettin mad pussy pretty fast

id just have to put all my thoughts into a collective days worth of talking.

That video was done in 2006, off the cuff when I was in a mall. I just did it to record something using my FLIP VIDEO CAMCORDER. It was like a test video so to speak. I wasn't even interested in taking the interaction further. Watch my other videos where I get testimonials from women and closes. My approach has changed quite a bit. We all evolve Phil. I will get some more videos in the upcoming months that represent my "Floyd Mayweather Jr and UFC superstar, unbeatable champion like" skills in the inter-sexual octagon. I have been really busy being the back end brain of Maaximum Seduction and getting bootcamps globally for myself and my trainers/outfit etc. I also do get mad closes each time I go out. Maybe its time to record some of them and upload them as people like you could judge me on a few or 1. Thanks mate. See I am not mad at all. In fact flattered that you created an entire thread around me

Cheers

You really think so? To me this is the best approach he ever did, hence him posting it on his special little Youtube channel where he touts his wears. I see a genuine lack of confidence and conviction, and as a result, a reliance on routines.

i was talking more in his forum vernacular rather than the videos. He said they wer old ones... i dunno mate, ill be honest the whole PUA community weirds me out, it wouldnt surprise me if some guy was agoraphobic 25 stone and sat behind a PC spouting warrior chants about his 1000'th lay.

u just dont know the truth from lies

Phil, if you want to do a talk mate, I'd come to see you talk for sure. I like your no messing about style.

He says a lot of shit... mostly shit.

This weekend (all started wed/thurs) i helped a friend from saying "i want to tell this girl i like her, i want to shout it from the rooftops" And being in bits over a girl

She was being distant with him, he was in a bad way... that was thursday.

He followed my lead a few days... sat she was begging him to come meet her and her mates...

today she is pic messaging him pics of her tits... this a girl he had only kissed.

I decided today to do a short book soon. Not really about PUA as such, but more about how to view women. And how to act to elicit certain wanted responses.

they are all the same. People are just so easy to manipulate.

I am not patient enough to wait for this book. Spill the beans. How did you help him?

HAHAH

the book isnt about this.

Basically the story is.



He calls asking for help, claiming he needed help with this girl, he really liked her and wanted to tell her. Ill just do a dialogue

Him : Ive been dating this girl... few dates... kissed her and tha, but i dont think she is that keen. I just wanna shout from the rooftops that i like her

Me : NO!! Dont fucking do that, You dont actually want her to know, The only reason u wanna do that is so she says it back.. Why do you need to hear it?

Him: So i know she likes me

Me: But she is going on dates with u... if she didnt like you why would she

Him: Well i don want her to think i dont like her and it fizzle out.

Me: Well ur taking her on a date, im sure its clear u like her.

Him: i text her alot but her replies are not really much

ME: Ok, first of all, Stop texing her all the time... and stop putting questions on the end of texts so she will text back... which i know u are doing without u telling me...

(he sniggers)

Me: Delete her number from your phone now....if she never texts again, she wasnt interested. If she does, Cool... dont write an essay, but try and get a funny text in, make it fun. I usually create a role play, like we are married with a dog, or im a spy or superhero... somethin u can create funny banter with.

Then make sure after a few texts, when its in its fun part... end the text with ... gotta dart ill text u later. Then leave it.

Also, dont be afraid to make fun of her... u need to be willing to piss her off to make her laff.

Him: ill try it all mate.

So he does, and 2 nights later i ask him how its going, he said she is being really keen. She is going out that night what to do if she texts.

I said "just text her back somethin like "i bet u and ur mates are doing spice girls routines. They are not as cool as u think. Anyway, why are u texting a boy on ur night out u loser... go have fun xxx"

She then texts him saying "come meet me"

he rings me in a panick

I told him NO!! text her, say "that sounds boss, id like to see ya but im just really tired, but we can catch up next week one night when we are both free... have fun.

she text him saying "NO COME MEET ME"

i told him to ignore her... she text again "cant believe your jibbin me x"

the next day, they wer both due to go to a party... she calls him

"can i come with u my cousin is running late"

Now, he didnt consult me here, he should have played the knight in armour but instead he said no for one reason or another... she didnt end up at the party.. no damage, he could have banged her that night...

but alas... sunday day... she sent him a pic of her boobs.... she obvs wants smashin now.

She will be saying to her mates "he has started playin a bit harder with me... i like it"

coz people like rare objects.

funny how little it takes to get girls hot 4 u

if u can trim that down into 1 or 2 dates... u will smash it.

This was a big realisation for me. I don't really ask any questions now. Everything is statements... 'This is happening'...'I am doing this'. I think what makes it powerful is that you don't require a response as such.

When it really hit home what this was all about, I remember a friend of mine telling me I had to ask a girl a question in a text, else she wouldn't respond. I thought to myself, 'what kind of fucked up logic is that!?' Needless to say the guy is clinging onto a girl who has severe confidence issues, because that's all he feels he could get.