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Originally Posted by Phil
ME: Ok, first of all, Stop texing her all the time... and stop putting questions on the end of texts so she will text back...
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This was a big realisation for me. I don't really ask any questions now. Everything is statements... 'This is happening'...'I am doing this'. I think what makes it powerful is that you don't require a response as such.
When it really hit home what this was all about, I remember a friend of mine telling me I had to ask a girl a question in a text, else she wouldn't respond. I thought to myself, 'what kind of fucked up logic is that!?' Needless to say the guy is clinging onto a girl who has severe confidence issues, because that's all he feels he could get.