Apparently, it's typically only in this country that sex is such a taboo topic, in other places around Europe people are generally pretty straight up about things, and its treated as nothing at all sordid.

A lot of people are taking this whole 'be honest, authentic, open, ...' stuff way further than it was ever intended.

Stating you do 'pickup' out of the blue in most conversations just to be 'authentic' is like adding wanking to a personal hobbies section of a cv, it's just irrelevant and people don't want to know, regardless of if they should/shouldn't judge you for it.

If your bringing it up in most conversations purposefully it will end up being a crutch and more of a 'routine' making you less 'authentic' by your own standards.

If they ask then that's diffrent situation, or if it comes up naturally now and then.. Personally I'm always open about these things but it annoys the hell out of me when people act all "look at me I'm so comfortable with myself that I need you to know about it".

It reminds me of overly camp gays.

Amen, mofo

I am not expecting everyone to chat about it openly in their workplaces no. I was referring to the attitude within the realms of the forum and the sceptical view people take on day game... as if getting drunk and going out with mates makes it 'ok' to talk to girls.

Yeah but I do think it is okay to chat to girls around my mates, Infact I'd say it's encouraged by them..

But if you fail at anything people are gonna give you the told you so or laugh. It's how people justify staying in their comfort zone about anything. Not just girls. Your still a legend when you succeed and a looser when you fail imo.

I do as well.