"Charisma is the intangible that makes people want to follow you, to be around you, to be influenced by you." -Roger Dawson

Why are we all here on this forum? I suspect it has something to do with the statement above, we want girls to follow us to be around us and to be influenced by us. We want to be the kind of charismatic person that is like a magnet to others.

How is this achieved? Very simply...... Be a source of positive emotions!

Think about the most charasmatic person you know, think about what happens when they enter the room. When someone really charming enters a room everyone begins to smile because they know that this person is a source of positive emotions, before they have even said a word everyone begins to feel good. Think of when a really amazing stand-up comedian walks on stage, before they even say a word everyone is smiling and giggling because they know that their about to recieve lots of positive emotions from this person. This is charisma at its core.

Not many people are a stand-up comedians and not many people have such an effect on others but it is easy to start working toward being like this. Just start thinking, acting and communicating in ways that are likely to make other people feel good, but do it for no other reason than to make them feel good.