Attraction & Good Looks

[legend]

I posted this question on Sapmi's Silent Game thread and Kowalski is right i deserves a new fresh topic because I ain't 100% sure the answer..!

Are we any different to how we see women than how women see us? We classify gorgeous, stunning girls as HB8-10, and we approach them and try to make us attractive to them in many different "ways" as posted all over this forum.

Now, do you think girls work in a different way to us? Do you think they would be attracted to a guy just by the fact that she thinks you appear hygienic, wear nice clothes, smell of YSL, clean cut etc. etc and then:

1) Make a point to have eye contact and with your suggestive gesture, to come over for a kiss (part of the Silent Game)? Or

2) Approach you and open up?

Let me know your opinion...!

[Tom]

I think it depends on the girl, I was seeing this one girl who liked it when I didn't shave and a bit scruffy.

[Swype]

I think looks matter very little (I mean of course u can't be hideous) but it's a combination of other things that makes a person attractive .
A) pride in appearance and self respect
B) pure self confidence
C) sense of humour

I'm sure alot of guys think they're good looking . This is a matter purely of opinion however . I know alot of guys wouldn't look the way I do because they wouldn't be comfortable with it (fuck u all I'm cool) and vice versa ! I think that believing you are are something special is very attractive (not in an arrogant way but a self assured way)

So go and buy those nice jeans , wear nice aftershave , take pride in your appearance . Good looking is an extremely relative phrase

[legend]

Thanks folks. The question was more directed to the silent game cos I was thinking unless you were a looker, a girl wouldnt bother coming up to you without the initial verbal interactions.

Much Success!

[sapmi]

"Good looking" is a subjective statement anyway. There will always be a small proportion of women attracted only by the looks of classically "good looking" men (Brad Pitt etc), so they could act "beta" and still pull. I bet there are the same amount of women who would be attracted to me just because of my looks, no matter how chode I act.

However, I firmly understand that the majority of ladies are attracted to guys acting like guys - guys who see themselves and understand they are sex worthy. Whether they are 2 feet tall, or whether they have 2 heads, these guys will get laid more than Brad Pitt lookalike chodes. (I'm not saying Brad Pitt is a chode, he's a cool dude!)

[sapmi]

Originally Posted by Jaz

If were using Brad pitt as an example. Every one can agree he is a good looking man. I am willing to bet his face symmetry is pretty much perfect.

I cant remember who said this, but a famous pua once said.

"If some brad pitt lookalike walks into a bar, he's got about two minutes on me before I blow him out the water, thats how far good looks go."

Says it all man...
And he is the one who has to approach, judging by what this girl said!

Gee, even us good looking blokes have a hard time

[no.fx]

the way I look at it is.....

If you are good looking, you get more positive indicators of interest and dont have to approach in the dark, so to speak

If you average looking, you have to work harder to gain interest and have to have more "game" to approach the sets and make an impression that will spark interest

I have a mate, that tbh is a good looking guy, I have been out with him on a numerous of nights and he never approaches women, they seem to approach him. Does he have game......no, he relys on looks

The whole thing about being a PUA is CHOICE! Its being able to choose your women and not settling for what you can get/ what approaches you. Good looking guys dont choose they settle. Look at Brad from The pick up artist, good looking guy, and had a few gf.......but had no game!

[no.fx]

oooops! wrong thread!

[bushido]

Originally Posted by no.fx

the way I look at it is.....

If you are good looking, you get more positive indicators of interest and dont have to approach in the dark, so to speak

If you average looking, you have to work harder to gain interest and have to have more "game" to approach the sets and make an impression that will spark interest

I have a mate, that tbh is a good looking guy, I have been out with him on a numerous of nights and he never approaches women, they seem to approach him. Does he have game......no, he relys on looks

The whole thing about being a PUA is CHOICE! Its being able to choose your women and not settling for what you can get/ what approaches you. Good looking guys dont choose they settle. Look at Brad from The pick up artist, good looking guy, and had a few gf.......but had no game!

spot on mate, im a good looking guy and the problem is that i have to settle for girls wh approach and talk to me, i lacked the skills to talk to them and my other less attractive friends were forced to go after girls, they got the skills and weer able to pull way more girls wen we went out. after learning pu i can now use my skills to approach and combined with my looks it makes it doubley effective to get the girls i want.

being good looking isnt always an advantage tho, if u have an average looking guy with good game and a gl guy with good game, sometimes girls might go for the average looking guy, they feel they can be more relaxed, arent as intimitated, wont havet to work as hard to keep them compared to the good looking guy, were i suppose most girls wud assume a good lookin guy with good game is a full player and it might not be the type of guy they want to form a relationship with. harder to keep, his good looks make him more attractive to other girls so he is more likely to be approached over an average looking guy.

all in all i say girls see looks as maybe like 40% of attractiveness wereas guys its like 80%. with good game u have 60% majority lol so u win

[Tom]

Attractiveness is also subjective, there was this girl I knew who really liked skinny guys and hated guys with muscles. I've known girls who like short guys, fat guys and bearded guys. What the worlds popular view of attractiveness might not be the one the girl you are talking to subscribes to